I noticed one of my Franciscan professors from college is the pastor of a conglomerate of a Byzantine Parish
There are a number of Ruthenian Franciscans and, in fact, at least a couple of the Ruthenian Eparchs (Latin=Bishops) come from a Franciscan heritage.
I have gone to the Ukrainian Catholic Church but don’t know what makes it different from say this guy’s church, which is Byzantine?
I think Deacon Ed addressed the differences as to language. Byzantine (Ruthenian) parishes almost invariably celebrate the Divine Liturgy (Latin=Mass) in English; some Ukrainian parishes also do so. The chant style differs and Liturgy at a Ruthenian parish will most likely be chanted, while recited Liturgies are sometimes encountered in Ukrainian parishes.
As Deacon Ed mentioned, there will be some minor differences in prayers and each church will commemorate its own Eparch. Depending on the particular parish, you might observe more Latin influence in a Ukrainian church (
e.g., statuary or stations of the cross on the walls) than in a Ruthenian one, as the Ukrainians in some cases have been a bit slower to eliminate latinizations than have other Byzantine Rite Churches.
On the subject of communion, the priest asked me the first time I took communion there and my daughter was standing there and he asked something like, "her? I think I should my head no, and he said “not yet?” I didn’t know if he was going to give communion to her because it is a practice in his church or if he was asking if she had received first communion. I would let her take communion if it was the practice of the church.
Ordinarily, one adheres to the practice of one’s own Church with respect to the matter of an infant being communed - so, you did the right thing if you are a Latin Catholic and your child hasn’t yet received her First Communion.
The Ukrainian Church I have gone to only uses english and sometimes sings in the old langauge… my great aunts know Ukrainian, my dad’s generation doesn’t know it and I sure don’t know much at all.
It sounds as though you may be a Ukrainian Greek-Catholic, regardless of the fact that you might have been raised in a Latin parish. A child’s membership in a Church
sui iuris is determined by the Church of its father in most instances. From what you say briefly here, it sounds as though your Dad’s family may have been Ukrainians of the Byzantine Rite who, like many others, ended up being raised in Latin churches - which doesn’t change what they are, no matter how long they attend them or even if they have received all their Sacraments in them.
If that sounds to you like your family situation and you want to explore your spiritual heritage more, just say so - there are several Byzantine Catholics on this forum, mainly Ruthenians (Al/a pilgrim, Michael/Hesychios, David/ByzCath, Adam/Akemner, Edwin/Edwin1961) and Melkites (Deacon Ed and me), Rose/Pani Rose (who is a Ruthenian/Melkite hybrid

), as well as some Latins (Amado, James/Jakub, JGC, and Wannabee - whose identity I think I have figured out

) who are very knowledgeable about the East - but we could probably scare up a Ukrainian among our friends

and any of us will be happy to answer any questions you might have.
Many years,
Neil
btw, I knew I recognized your nick from another thread - you gave a great response to a certain irritating poster who declared he was going to go Byzantine

as a protest against the NO Mass