How grave is this?

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Is making a promise to God and then breaking it a mortal sin? It was not broken out of explicit disire to do so but out of reclesness.

Also I realized it and because I was doing something else I thought that I would finish doing it even if I was late. In the end I didn’t do it because it was too late.
 
Is making a promise to God and then breaking it a mortal sin? It was not broken out of explicit disire to do so but out of reclesness.

Also I realized it and because I was doing something else I thought that I would finish doing it even if I was late. In the end I didn’t do it because it was too late.
I think it would depend on the nature of the promise as well as the reason for not carrying it out.

For example, a priest makes a solemn vow to pray the Divine Office every day. But if they become exhausted after responding to numerous pastoral emergencies and fall asleep in their sitting chair, I think the culpability is limited.

I believe the different types of “promises” to God carry different weight. These are promises which we need to carry out. After all, we gave our word.

Then there are vows, these seem to me to carry more weight than a simple promise. a vow me become a grave matter.

After this come solemn vows and oaths before God. To me, these are serious promises making violating them a grave matter. Thus, to me, it is most likely these carry the weight of mortal sin if they are ignored for other than the most serious of reasons.

In this light, we must also not forget what a moral sin is. It must be a grave matter, you must have a least a brief moment to reflect on it, and after that you must consciously consent to do it.
 
Christ is Born! Glorify Him!

I agree with rpp - there are many “it depends” to consider.

My guess, though, is that it probably was not grave matter and you might be experiencing some scruples. Remember that God is a loving Father, and He knows our weakness. Entrust yourself to His mercy and follow Padre Pio’s advice:

Pray, Hope, and Don’t Worry!

In ICXC,

Gordo
 
Indeed Christ is Born! All glory to Him! 🙂

Well, just to clarify. It was just a promise that I actually did for myself. I was experiening a difficult period in which I coudn’t get myself to bed early to work. I was quite depressed about it so I asked God to help me and I promised him that I woudn’t do it next day. But I did it. I think I didn’t realize it right away that I promised it but I think later on I realized it. I don’t remember exactly how it was. I just wanted ot finish what I was writing but then ended up going very late anyways because of my reclessness.

I do think I’m a scruplous these days but I discard these idea just because of that.

God bless!
 
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