How have you explained the 9 gifts of the holy spirit to your friends?
We have 7. And we, my wife and I, explained them to our children.
wisdom, understanding, counsel, fortitude, knowledge, piety, and fear of the Lord
Can you give examples how you have applied them in your life?
They are gifts of the Spirit and are therefore exercised by habit. In other words, when one goes about the daily business, one uses all the gifts to one extent or another.
For example, when one is having a conversation, opportunities to apply each one of the gifts can come up, all at once. We don’t sit back and say, “I’m going to be wise now.” Since we have been given wisdom, we simply respond wisely.
Another thing, they are not alone. They must be applied, virtuously. In other words, we shouldn’t say, “I’m wise now, therefore, I can’t listen to you.” No.
They must be applied with regards to honesty, prudence, humility, in other words, moderated by the virtues.
As saint Paul said. Regarding the holy spirit. I would not have you ignorance.
1cor14 -25
Amen!