How is the LDS a cult?

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I know of people that call the Catholic Church a Cult. 🤷

I did ā€œlooseā€ a friend to LDS. Seriously. We could NOT attend the wedding in their church, eventually she cut off ties to all of us ā€œNON-MORMONSā€. I don’t know why:shrug::eek:😦

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No, I don’t see the hypocrisy in thousands of volunteer’s being organized and willing to step up to help those in times of disaster such as hurricane Sandy and more recently in the Phillipines. The yellow vests in the Mormon Helping Hands program is a form of identification in an organized effort. People in these disaster areas want to know what organization is helping in their neighborhood. Many non-LDS from the join in the volunteer effort as shown in the ā€œMormon Helping Hands Videoā€.

ā€œYe are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.ā€ (Matt. 5:14-16)
So, doing your alms in secret does not apply?

If you are there to help, you did not need ā€œsee me I am awesomeā€ vests for people in need to find you.
 
No, I don’t see the hypocrisy in thousands of volunteer’s being organized and willing to step up to help those in times of disaster such as hurricane Sandy and more recently in the Phillipines. The yellow vests in the Mormon Helping Hands program is a form of identification in an organized effort. People in these disaster areas want to know what organization is helping in their neighborhood. Many non-LDS from the join in the volunteer effort as shown in the ā€œMormon Helping Hands Videoā€.

ā€œYe are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.ā€ (Matt. 5:14-16)
You don your cute little yellow vests, plaster LDS relief on everything, and hand it out at a disaster. Fine, great, but your bishops turn individuals away?

Like I asked in a previous post:

So all of your lds bishops are licensed physicians? Psychotherapists?
All of your lds bishops are able to diagnose disease and disability on the spot?

Porknpie said, "work there are other places they can get a hand out.
Show me an example in the bible where Christ said feed the poor, clothe the naked … and that there were strings attached to his words. "


You are picking and choosing who to help, that is being judgmental, condescending and hypocritical to those being turned away.

While in Florida, in 2004, I went through Hurricanes Frances, Ivan, and Jean. We survived them all, with minimal damage. But according to you, I could have walked up to one of these people and gotten whatever they were offering.

On the other hand, if I go to the local lds food pantry (or whatever it is called), I would be turned away because ". If people can work and are not willing to work there are other places they can get a hand out.", I evidently need to **prove **I’m either disabled,or unemployed.

Unless of course, the bishop uses his magic power and determines one or the other, then I wouldn’t need to **prove **my need for assistance.

That is the hypocrisy in it. Pure and simple.

I’ll let you in on a little secret. The little yellow vests, are just to get air time when the media shows up. šŸ‘

I guess you should have read further in Matthew. Try Matt 25:31-46.

New International Version (NIV)
The Sheep and the Goats

31 ā€œWhen the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his glorious throne. 32 All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33 He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.

34 ā€œThen the King will say to those on his right, ā€˜Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’

37 ā€œThen the righteous will answer him, ā€˜Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’

40 ā€œThe King will reply, ā€˜Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’

41 ā€œThen he will say to those on his left, ā€˜Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 42 For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43 I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’

44 ā€œThey also will answer, ā€˜Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’

45 ā€œHe will reply, ā€˜Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’

46 ā€œThen they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.ā€

Talk about, There are none so blind as those who will not see. 🤷
 
No, I don’t see the hypocrisy in thousands of volunteer’s being organized and willing to step up to help those in times of disaster such as hurricane Sandy and more recently in the Phillipines. The yellow vests in the Mormon Helping Hands program is a form of identification in an organized effort. People in these disaster areas want to know what organization is helping in their neighborhood. Many non-LDS from the join in the volunteer effort as shown in the ā€œMormon Helping Hands Videoā€.

ā€œYe are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.ā€ (Matt. 5:14-16)
mtoly, I am of the opinion that the work to help people is a good thing. Nothing to put down there.

I just have to wonder if the need to be seen is for the benefit of the people being helped, or for those doing the helping. If the latter, it comes across as using people in a terrible situation for self-promotion.

You can self-identify yourself using small items. A name tag, or subdued colors. Bright yellow screams ā€œsee meā€, not, ā€œI see you.ā€ ā€œI see youā€ is portrayed by the work itself, what you are giving unconditionally, not by what you are wearing. That is the light on a hill, what you are doing for others, not what you are doing for yourself. It doesn’t require that you wear any particular item of clothing.

For these reasons, I think if I were LDS, I would forgo wearing the bright yellow shirt. But, I work in the film industry, and understand the difference between those in front of the camera, and those behind it. I’m a behind the camera kind of person. šŸ™‚
 
So, doing your alms in secret does not apply?

If you are there to help, you did not need ā€œsee me I am awesomeā€ vests for people in need to find you.
There is plenty of charity that should be and is done in seceret. However, if I tell you about it, it isn’t seceret.

Thousands of voluteers showing up to help after a disaster isn’t a seceret. If you show up to help I’m sure you could wear an awsome yellow vest also.
 
There is plenty of charity that should be and is done in seceret. However, if I tell you about it, it isn’t seceret.

Thousands of voluteers showing up to help after a disaster isn’t a seceret. If you show up to help I’m sure you could wear an awsome yellow vest also.
ok…so you refuse to do it in secret…you need folks who are not LDS to know…

and when the people in need ARE LDS, there are strings attached.

Got it.

Odd way to run a train
 
Yes, some people will see it that way. However, when thousands of Latter-day Saints showed up to help the people of of New York after Hurricane Sandy in their bright yellow ā€œMormon Helping Handsā€ vests no one seemed to complain. LDS bishop storehouses were open for all with no strings attatched. The yellow jackets identify a group that is organized and ready to help when and where disasters strike. After all wouldn’t you want be able to identify a strange western cult that was invading your nieghborhood?:rolleyes:
For anyone interested in more information you can watch an 8 minute video, google: ā€œMormon Helping Hands Videoā€
Funny, I’m actually in that video (not one of the main people speaking), and one of my friends has a speaking part too. It really was a great experience. There were many different humanitarian organizations there, and we all worked together. Everyone was appreciative of the work we did, and asked us to keep coming, as all they wanted was help. I went twice, and a few of my friends went multiple times. It was great to be around so many young people that gave up their weekends, and even some weekdays, to go and volunteer all day (and it wasn’t easy work!). The Young Single Adult congregations in Manhattan (4 of them) cancelled our regular Sacrament Meetings, and we had a joint abbreviated Sacrament Meeting then went down there (the family congregations went on Saturdays, we (YSAs) went on Sundays). We met people from other congregations around the country (mostly from the East Coast though) that came to help (a friend of mine randomly ran into people from her ward back in Boston). When it got closer to Christmas time and the weather got worse/colder, organized MHM efforts were stopped, even though many people still wanted to go (they were encouraged to join with other efforts). We were also encouraged to donate what we could to various charitable organizations to help out.

I think it’s safe to say that everyone that participated did it because they wanted to help others. Especially those that went multiple times to do hard, manual labor. It would’ve been much easier to sleep in and do nothing (and I knew a few people that did just that). In addition, there are of course the personal benefits and feelings that come from doing such things. As far as the yellow Mormon Helping Hands t-shirts and aprons (or whatever you call those things), I don’t think it’s that big of a deal. It obviously helps with identification, for both those being assisted, as well as amongst the volunteers (especially when we’re spread out in large areas, like in the Rockaways for Sandy relief). I also think that many like to feel like being ā€œpart of somethingā€, and having the t-shirt plays to those feelings (which also reminds me of how everyone loved to get a t-shirt for their dorm, for their school, organization, etc back in college). I also did a google image search for ā€œcatholic charities reliefā€, and found a few interesting images:

catholiccharitiesraleigh.org/disaster-response
catholiccharities-cc.org/index.cfm?load=photoalbum&album=6
ccdoy.org/locations/catholic-charities-of-ashtabula-county/diocese-of-youngstown-accepts-donations-for-families-impacted-by-severe-tornadoes/
archindy.org/criterion/files/2012/03-16/tornadoes-large.jpg
Etc

So, I see nothing wrong with wearing identifying clothing when providing relief services. And I don’t think Mormons are unique in wearing such clothing, nor are Mormons unique in providing service to those in need, including after disasters. I’m glad that we can all help our fellow man, no matter what faith (or non-faith).

Anyway, just wanted to share my experience with that ā€œMormon Helping Handsā€ project. šŸ™‚
 
You don your cute little yellow vests, plaster LDS relief on everything, and hand it out at a disaster. Fine, great, but your bishops turn individuals away?
Yes, there are priorities. We can’t do everything. The Bishop’s first responsibilty is to help faithful members of his ward who have needs. Widow and children are usually will be helped first. We also volunteer in community projects to help the homeless.
Like I asked in a previous post:

So all of your lds bishops are licensed physicians? Psychotherapists?
All of your lds bishops are able to diagnose disease and disability on the spot?
As you know the LDS bishop is an unpaid servant with his own profession. He knows the members and needs of the ward members. There are professionals that the bishop can access or refer members for counseling.
Porknpie said, "work there are other places they can get a hand out.
Show me an example in the bible where Christ said feed the poor, clothe the naked … and that there were strings attached to his words. "


You are picking and choosing who to help, that is being judgmental, condescending and hypocritical to those being turned away.

While in Florida, in 2004, I went through Hurricanes Frances, Ivan, and Jean. We survived them all, with minimal damage. But according to you, I could have walked up to one of these people and gotten whatever they were offering.

On the other hand, if I go to the local lds food pantry (or whatever it is called), I would be turned away because ". If people can work and are not willing to work there are other places they can get a hand out.", I evidently need to **prove **I’m either disabled,or unemployed.

Unless of course, the bishop uses his magic power and determines one or the other, then I wouldn’t need to **prove **my need for assistance.

That is the hypocrisy in it. Pure and simple.

I’ll let you in on a little secret. The little yellow vests, are just to get air time when the media shows up. šŸ‘

I guess you should have read further in Matthew. Try Matt 25:31-46.

New International Version (NIV)
The Sheep and the Goats

31 ā€œWhen the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his glorious throne. 32 All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33 He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.

34 ā€œThen the King will say to those on his right, ā€˜Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’

37 ā€œThen the righteous will answer him, ā€˜Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’

40 ā€œThe King will reply, ā€˜Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’

41 ā€œThen he will say to those on his left, ā€˜Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 42 For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43 I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’

44 ā€œThey also will answer, ā€˜Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’

45 ā€œHe will reply, ā€˜Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’

46 ā€œThen they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.ā€

Talk about, There are none so blind as those who will not see. 🤷
It is true that as a church or as an individual we each need decide for ourselves who and how we serve others in need. No need really to worry that someone else is not doing it right. As you quoted above, the Lord will be the judge.
 
Funny, I’m actually in that video (not one of the main people speaking), and one of my friends has a speaking part too. It really was a great experience. There were many different humanitarian organizations there, and we all worked together. Everyone was appreciative of the work we did, and asked us to keep coming, as all they wanted was help. I went twice, and a few of my friends went multiple times. It was great to be around so many young people that gave up their weekends, and even some weekdays, to go and volunteer all day (and it wasn’t easy work!). The Young Single Adult congregations in Manhattan (4 of them) cancelled our regular Sacrament Meetings, and we had a joint abbreviated Sacrament Meeting then went down there (the family congregations went on Saturdays, we (YSAs) went on Sundays). We met people from other congregations around the country (mostly from the East Coast though) that came to help (a friend of mine randomly ran into people from her ward back in Boston). When it got closer to Christmas time and the weather got worse/colder, organized MHM efforts were stopped, even though many people still wanted to go (they were encouraged to join with other efforts). We were also encouraged to donate what we could to various charitable organizations to help out.

I think it’s safe to say that everyone that participated did it because they wanted to help others. Especially those that went multiple times to do hard, manual labor. It would’ve been much easier to sleep in and do nothing (and I knew a few people that did just that). In addition, there are of course the personal benefits and feelings that come from doing such things. As far as the yellow Mormon Helping Hands t-shirts and aprons (or whatever you call those things), I don’t think it’s that big of a deal. It obviously helps with identification, for both those being assisted, as well as amongst the volunteers (especially when we’re spread out in large areas, like in the Rockaways for Sandy relief). I also think that many like to feel like being ā€œpart of somethingā€, and having the t-shirt plays to those feelings (which also reminds me of how everyone loved to get a t-shirt for their dorm, for their school, organization, etc back in college). I also did a google image search for ā€œcatholic charities reliefā€, and found a few interesting images:

catholiccharitiesraleigh.org/disaster-response
catholiccharities-cc.org/index.cfm?load=photoalbum&album=6
ccdoy.org/locations/catholic-charities-of-ashtabula-county/diocese-of-youngstown-accepts-donations-for-families-impacted-by-severe-tornadoes/
archindy.org/criterion/files/2012/03-16/tornadoes-large.jpg
Etc

So, I see nothing wrong with wearing identifying clothing when providing relief services. And I don’t think Mormons are unique in wearing such clothing, nor are Mormons unique in providing service to those in need, including after disasters. I’m glad that we can all help our fellow man, no matter what faith (or non-faith).

Anyway, just wanted to share my experience with that ā€œMormon Helping Handsā€ project. šŸ™‚
:thumbsup:Very interesting. Thank you for sharing your experience.
 
Funny, I’m actually in that video (not one of the main people speaking), and one of my friends has a speaking part too. It really was a great experience. There were many different humanitarian organizations there, and we all worked together. Everyone was appreciative of the work we did, and asked us to keep coming, as all they wanted was help. I went twice, and a few of my friends went multiple times. It was great to be around so many young people that gave up their weekends, and even some weekdays, to go and volunteer all day (and it wasn’t easy work!). The Young Single Adult congregations in Manhattan (4 of them) cancelled our regular Sacrament Meetings, and we had a joint abbreviated Sacrament Meeting then went down there (the family congregations went on Saturdays, we (YSAs) went on Sundays). We met people from other congregations around the country (mostly from the East Coast though) that came to help (a friend of mine randomly ran into people from her ward back in Boston). When it got closer to Christmas time and the weather got worse/colder, organized MHM efforts were stopped, even though many people still wanted to go (they were encouraged to join with other efforts). We were also encouraged to donate what we could to various charitable organizations to help out.

I think it’s safe to say that everyone that participated did it because they wanted to help others. Especially those that went multiple times to do hard, manual labor. It would’ve been much easier to sleep in and do nothing (and I knew a few people that did just that). In addition, there are of course the personal benefits and feelings that come from doing such things. As far as the yellow Mormon Helping Hands t-shirts and aprons (or whatever you call those things), I don’t think it’s that big of a deal. It obviously helps with identification, for both those being assisted, as well as amongst the volunteers (especially when we’re spread out in large areas, like in the Rockaways for Sandy relief). I also think that many like to feel like being ā€œpart of somethingā€, and having the t-shirt plays to those feelings (which also reminds me of how everyone loved to get a t-shirt for their dorm, for their school, organization, etc back in college). I also did a google image search for ā€œcatholic charities reliefā€, and found a few interesting images:

catholiccharitiesraleigh.org/disaster-response
catholiccharities-cc.org/index.cfm?load=photoalbum&album=6
ccdoy.org/locations/catholic-charities-of-ashtabula-county/diocese-of-youngstown-accepts-donations-for-families-impacted-by-severe-tornadoes/
archindy.org/criterion/files/2012/03-16/tornadoes-large.jpg
Etc

So, I see nothing wrong with wearing identifying clothing when providing relief services. And I don’t think Mormons are unique in wearing such clothing, nor are Mormons unique in providing service to those in need, including after disasters. I’m glad that we can all help our fellow man, no matter what faith (or non-faith).

Anyway, just wanted to share my experience with that ā€œMormon Helping Handsā€ project. šŸ™‚
I thought of the same CRS shirts. šŸ™‚ Intention is the main thing, I think, and I don’t pretend to know what the intention of any other person might be. I’d like to give the benefit of the doubt, but my experience with LDS is, y’all like to toot your own horn! 😃 My own analysis of this, ironically, is the LDS Church is trying to get over the public view, held by a lot of people, that it is a cult.

But as I said, I like to do things in the background. Wearing the same shirt as everyone just isn’t my thing. šŸ˜› My work tries to get us to do the same. I have a closet full of jackets, shirts, hats, etc. with the work logo on them. I rarely wear them and have been thinking on spring cleaning and sending it all to the road home.
 
Yes, there are priorities. We can’t do everything. The Bishop’s first responsibilty is to help faithful members of his ward who have needs. Widow and children are usually will be helped first. We also volunteer in community projects to help the homeless.

As you know the LDS bishop is an unpaid servant with his own profession. He knows the members and needs of the ward members. There are professionals that the bishop can access or refer members for counseling.

It is true that as a church or as an individual we each need decide for ourselves who and how we serve others in need. No need really to worry that someone else is not doing it right. As you quoted above, the Lord will be the judge.
Complete non answers, as expected.

I am still amazed that you don’t see the hypocrisy. Just amazed. 🤷
 
Is it true that Smith stumbled across golden plates from God that only he could read?
 
Is it true that Smith stumbled across golden plates from God that only he could read?
And only he saw.

He translated them using magic rocks in his hat, and sticking his head in the hat to ā€œtranslateā€
 
Funny, I’m actually in that video (not one of the main people speaking), and one of my friends has a speaking part too. It really was a great experience. There were many different humanitarian organizations there, and we all worked together. Everyone was appreciative of the work we did, and asked us to keep coming, as all they wanted was help. I went twice, and a few of my friends went multiple times. It was great to be around so many young people that gave up their weekends, and even some weekdays, to go and volunteer all day (and it wasn’t easy work!). The Young Single Adult congregations in Manhattan (4 of them) cancelled our regular Sacrament Meetings, and we had a joint abbreviated Sacrament Meeting then went down there (the family congregations went on Saturdays, we (YSAs) went on Sundays). We met people from other congregations around the country (mostly from the East Coast though) that came to help (a friend of mine randomly ran into people from her ward back in Boston). When it got closer to Christmas time and the weather got worse/colder, organized MHM efforts were stopped, even though many people still wanted to go (they were encouraged to join with other efforts). We were also encouraged to donate what we could to various charitable organizations to help out.

I think it’s safe to say that everyone that participated did it because they wanted to help others. Especially those that went multiple times to do hard, manual labor. It would’ve been much easier to sleep in and do nothing (and I knew a few people that did just that). In addition, there are of course the personal benefits and feelings that come from doing such things. As far as the yellow Mormon Helping Hands t-shirts and aprons (or whatever you call those things), I don’t think it’s that big of a deal. It obviously helps with identification, for both those being assisted, as well as amongst the volunteers (especially when we’re spread out in large areas, like in the Rockaways for Sandy relief). I also think that many like to feel like being ā€œpart of somethingā€, and having the t-shirt plays to those feelings (which also reminds me of how everyone loved to get a t-shirt for their dorm, for their school, organization, etc back in college). I also did a google image search for ā€œcatholic charities reliefā€, and found a few interesting images:

catholiccharitiesraleigh.org/disaster-response
catholiccharities-cc.org/index.cfm?load=photoalbum&album=6
ccdoy.org/locations/catholic-charities-of-ashtabula-county/diocese-of-youngstown-accepts-donations-for-families-impacted-by-severe-tornadoes/
archindy.org/criterion/files/2012/03-16/tornadoes-large.jpg
Etc

So, I see nothing wrong with wearing identifying clothing when providing relief services. And I don’t think Mormons are unique in wearing such clothing, nor are Mormons unique in providing service to those in need, including after disasters. I’m glad that we can all help our fellow man, no matter what faith (or non-faith).

Anyway, just wanted to share my experience with that ā€œMormon Helping Handsā€ project. šŸ™‚
OT here LW, is Dave Buckner your stake president?
 
I see a lot of hypocrisy. I just don’t see it the same place you do.
Of course.

I’m not sure how much more plainly I can explain it to you.

It is obvious you choose to ignore it when it is pointed out to you.
 
Yes he is (at least since I moved here last year).
šŸ™‚

Dave and I were in the same BYU ward back in the late 80’s early 90’s. Very friendly and kind guy…and BUSY and hi-octane…(may have been my HT even. Things were so transient at BYU wards…

I have very fond memories of him. Particularly during one bad experience when he came to me to re-assure me of his support…

Good soul… šŸ™‚
 
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