Hi Andy,
I try and think of it this way, where I can still be in this world but I don’t have to do what everybody else does, regarding those who practice a more secular lifestyle.
I can try my best not to sin, and if I do, I can ask for God’s forgiveness. The Sacraments are there to help us.
I will pray for an increase in the gifts of the Holy Spirit, if I feel that I need help in a particular area. I will pray for an increase for a particular gift. For example, I may feel that I need some more guidance in my life, and I may then pray more for the gift of Wisdom, for example.
I may just say a simple prayer and ask to be more wise, for example, if I felt like I didn’t use my best judgment in a particular situation, didn’t put God first when I should have, etc. Something like that.
God gives HIs gifts freely to those who ask, out of love for us. He will help you to live as holy a life as possible, while you are right here on Earth.
I keep focused on The Lord and his Church. I keep focused on everything that the Church gives us, to help us, too.
We have Mass, we have Adoration. We have Our Blessed Mother, St. Joseph and all of the Angels and Saints to help us.
We have the Bible. We have devotional readings and websites to look at too, if that helps you. Things like the Saint of the Day, the Vatican, the Catechism, etc., and we have forums like Catholic Answers.
We have Sacramentals to use like the Rosary, Holy Water, Medals, the Scapular, and Relics, for example, too.
I use all of these things to help me the best that I can, in my daily life.