Well put, Mintaka.

I was a Wiccan for 34 years before becoming Catholic this past July and I became Wiccan for some of the reasons you described. I rebelled against Christianity because it was used against me from a young age; my mom’s side was Russian Orthodox (I was baptized R.O.) and my dad’s side was Catholic. It’s a long story but there was much animosity on both sides that caused me to reject any form of Christianity.
One of the cornerstones of Wiccan belief is the Rede, which is a simple statement that says, “And it harm none, do what thou wilt.” Another is that whatever you send out will return to you threefold, good or bad. Most Wiccans will not practice magic or spells that harm another or interferes with someone else’s free will, even to cast love spells to bring two people together because that’s a violation of the Rede and it will come back somehow. Of course, that doesn’t cover all Wiccans, but I and many of my friends were like that. We mainly did workings for healing, spiritual abundance, prosperity, etc.
Wicca is very occult. Most use various forms of divination such as Tarot cards, runes, astrology, crystal ball gazing, etc. That alone can open you up to to some demonic forces, as I’ve since learned.
Another fundamental difference between Wicca and Christianity is that in Wicca, the person is god or goddess and the person has the ability to direct one’s life through magic as opposed to giving oneself over the the will of God.
With regard to curses, if this young man is the kind of Wiccan I described, he might not be inclined to curses but I pray that he finds his way back to the Church because in addition to the occult practices, it can be a lonely existence. Depending on where you live it can be very difficult to find like-minded others. There’s a lot of squabbling between groups and sects of Wicca. You can become isolated from family and coworkers because of a fear of being ostracized if someone comes over and sees your paraphernalia be it books, crystals, Tarot cards, statues, pentagrams, etc.
I’m the happiest I’ve ever been since becoming Catholic. I’m active in my parish, making lifelong friends, and rediscovered the joy in giving my will over to God instead of trying to push my life around like rolling a boulder uphill.
I will keep you all in my prayers!
