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It has been said, time and again, the Mormons are nice. I wouldn’t mind living next to them, but I wouldn’t let my daughter date one.I agree. After those without religion, I would fear Mormons.
It has been said, time and again, the Mormons are nice. I wouldn’t mind living next to them, but I wouldn’t let my daughter date one.I agree. After those without religion, I would fear Mormons.
I fear those whose religion mandates that they enforce their beliefs upon those who do not believe…such as politicians who, even as they are supposed to be representing their constituents, must vote a specific way (even if it is diametrically opposed to what the people who elected him to represent them want) or suffer excommunication from their faiths.I agree. After those without religion, I would fear Mormons.
Of course not. Why, if you did, she would be dating a young man (at least, if he is an ‘active’ Mormon) who doesn’t smoke, drink, swear, do drugs, will not take her to a movie that’s rated “R” or over, and who won’t think that she owes him sex in payment for the dinner.It has been said, time and again, the Mormons are nice. I wouldn’t mind living next to them, but I wouldn’t let my daughter date one.
And those same young men exist in Christianity.Of course not. Why, if you did, she would be dating a young man (at least, if he is an ‘active’ Mormon) who doesn’t smoke, drink, swear, do drugs, will not take her to a movie that’s rated “R” or over, and who won’t think that she owes him sex in payment for the dinner.
Which is why I am not worried.I suppose that could bother some people.
Of course, if your daughter is old enough to be seriously dating…that is, examining dates for potential husbandhood…the odds are that she wouldn’t be dating a Mormon anyway. He wouldn’t ask her out. HE is looking for a wife he can keep for eternity–and he couldn’t do that with your daughter unless she converts.
I have a few years to worry about it. She isn’t going to be allowed to date until she is 25.…and converting for a boy friend is a very bad idea.
On the other hand, if he is NOT an active, believing Mormon, he might well ask your daughter out, and maybe even convert to HER religion. However, that sorta lets all the worries about smoking, drinking and the other stuff back in the mix.
Not that either one of us has all that much to say about who our children date, once they get old enough TO date…
By the way, that would be age 16.
Of course they do. As an exception to the rule. The thing is, if your young Mormon man is a good Mormon, that IS the rule, not the exception.And those same young men exist in Christianity.
No, if you weren’t worried, you would allow the dating.Which is why I am not worried.
(snort) She MIGHT have a thing or two to say about that one.I have a few years to worry about it. She isn’t going to be allowed to date until she is 25.
I’d like to meet the Christians you interact with because they don’t seem any different than the world.Of course they do. As an exception to the rule. The thing is, if your young Mormon man is a good Mormon, that IS the rule, not the exception.
When I was of a dating age, I met a girl at work. She declined. Since we worked together, I continued to see her and I got my courage up and asked her again. This time she said, sure, but our first date would have to be dinner at her parents house. I said, no problem, because I had actually had to meet several girls parents this way. At the door I was greeted by a whole family, a nice, huge Mormon family. I’ve often wondered if she was testing me or testing her parents.No, if you weren’t worried, you would allow the dating.
Well, I can dream.(snort) She MIGHT have a thing or two to say about that one.Shoot, it takes a culture wide mandate to keep MORMONS from dating until they are 16!
Q: How long should a faith carry the baggage of their forefathers?I think every world faith has a time in their history where, as a collective, things did not go exactly as their faith now believes (or practices).
Just a few examples I can think of are
Catholics - The Inquistion
Mormons - Polygamy
Jehovah’s Witnesses - the years 1914, 1925, 1975
Seventh Day Adventist - October 22, 1844
Southern Baptist - slavery
Muslims - extremist terrorism
So with this is mind, I am wondering the following
- How long should a faith carry the baggage of their forefathers?
- Is it acceptable for those issues to be brought up when considering converting?
- Is it acceptable for those issues to be brought up when debating about the religion (even if the faith has renounced the contention)?
- Are there faiths which has successfully done this?
Yes, it has been said. I personal have not found it to be true and US history doesn’t find it to be true. But it has been said. My daughter never dated or married one. She did have a friend that was one until the Mormon started to party more than my daughter felt comfortable with; then the friendship ended.It has been said, time and again, the Mormons are nice. I wouldn’t mind living next to them, but I wouldn’t let my daughter date one.
So do I; which it why I fear Mormons more than any other American based religion. But I fear those without religion much much more than Mormons.I fear those whose religion mandates that they enforce their beliefs upon those who do not believe…such as politicians who, even as they are supposed to be representing their constituents, must vote a specific way (even if it is diametrically opposed to what the people who elected him to represent them want) or suffer excommunication from their faiths.
I fear those whose religion mandates the judgnt of those who do not share their beliefs, so that temporal/worldly penalties are assessed upon the non-believer.
I fear those whose religion prompts them to violence against others because the others do not share the attacker’s beliefs or world view.
I fear those who justify discrimination, intolerance and hatred because ‘they aren’t us.’
I too live in Alabama; I spewed my drink when I read this!!!Personally, I am not ready to release Southern Baptists. I live in an area where it is the largest group. They can be a royal pain to deal with, so I like having this to knock them off of their high horse. Further, it was the main reason that they exist at all.
Boy, that’s a moving of the goalposts! You didn’t mention the ‘American Based religion’ part before. There are very few 'American based religions." It’s like saying that you fear cotton-tails more than any other species of rabbit—and giving the impression that you are actually comparing them to the whole of of mammal-kind.So do I; which it why I fear Mormons more than any other American based religion. But I fear those without religion much much more than Mormons.
A politician is automatically threatened with excommunication if they vote in opposition to what the church teaches?The fact is, Stephen (as the presence of Harry Ried proves) the CoJCoLDS does NOT threaten excommunication if a politician votes in a way that the church might collectively disaprove.
…but the Catholics do. In fact, it’s automatic…and I have to tell you that THIS bit of information came as a surprise!
Wow Diana…Boy, that’s a moving of the goalposts! You didn’t mention the ‘American Based religion’ part before. There are very few 'American based religions." It’s like saying that you fear cotton-tails more than any other species of rabbit—and giving the impression that you are actually comparing them to the whole of of mammal-kind.
The fact is, Stephen (as the presence of Harry Ried proves) the CoJCoLDS does NOT threaten excommunication if a politician votes in a way that the church might collectively disaprove.
…but the Catholics do. In fact, it’s automatic…and I have to tell you that THIS bit of information came as a surprise!
The fact is, Stephen, that the CoJCoLDS does not now, and never has, made war upon others because we didn’t like their religion.
…but the Catholics have. Frequently. Your long history does not show you as being much of a ‘live and let live’ sort of organization.
the fact is, Stephen, that the CoJCoLDS has, in its Articles of Faith (or creed) a specific statement that all men and women have the right to worship as they please, and indeed we have upheld and supported that right throughout our history. BY went out of his way to see to it that other Christian faiths had…not ‘good’ building sites, but the BEST building sites, even before he assigned sites to our own meeting houses. The fact is, Stephen, that the CoJCoLDS does not tell those who disagree with our POV that THEY are not Christian, or that they worship a ‘false Christ,’ or that they are lesser–or cults, or…
…but the Catholics certainly do.
So it is perhaps a good thing that you altered your claim from ‘fearing Mormons more than any other religion’ to ‘fearing Mormons more than any American based religion’ (and you fear us more than the Scientologists? Good grief, man, we don’t even sue people who violate our copyright for Temple scripts!) . That leaves so many other religions you CAN fear more than you do us. doesn’t it?
Whats to fear about scientology?So it is perhaps a good thing that you altered your claim from ‘fearing Mormons more than any other religion’ to ‘fearing Mormons more than any American based religion’ (and you fear us more than the Scientologists? Good grief, man, we don’t even sue people who violate our copyright for Temple scripts!) . That leaves so many other religions you CAN fear more than you do us. doesn’t it?
Even though the Spanish Inquisition “was not so dark” perhaps it would be pertinent to shed some “light”After you study the Inquisition, you find it was not so dark after all.
I fear those whose religion mandates that they enforce their beliefs upon those who do not believe…such as politicians who, even as they are supposed to be representing their constituents, must vote a specific way (even if it is diametrically opposed to what the people who elected him to represent them want) or suffer excommunication from their faiths.
I find it interesting that only two members of the Catholic clergy were elected to national office. One supported a ban on abortion, the other did not. I think this shows how apprehensive American Catholics are to force their beliefs on others; even over something as heinous as abortion. When the Pope banned the clergy from holding public office the one who opposed a ban on abortion did not run again, he was also never excommunicated for his political position.A politician is automatically threatened with excommunication if they vote in opposition to what the church teaches?
I know that they are asked not to present themselves for communion, but excommunicated?
Never known any Catholic politician to be excommunitcated for for voting in a manner contrary to what the CC teaches, not even the Kennedy’s.![]()
I don’t know much about Scientology, so as an American Catholic, I cannot tell if I should be afraid.Whats to fear about scientology?
No. He is not 'automatically threatened with excommunication." The excommunication itself is automatic. It happens with the vote. I found that out when I was looking up the catagory of excommunication that happens to anyone who procures an abortion. The list of those for whom this automatic excommunication happens includes heretics, dropping, stealing or otherwise behaving sacriligiously to the Host, a priest or nun getting married, attacking the Pope or a Bishop…or a politician who votes for any law that permits abortion in any circumstance, even if that’s what his constituents, who he represents, insist that he do so. In fact, this is why the Kennedies are in so much trouble, and why Notre Dame is in danger of having its Catholic affiliation taken away.A politician is automatically threatened with excommunication if they vote in opposition to what the church teaches?
Yep. Hey…I didn’t get this from any anti-Catholic source. I looked at CATHOLIC sources for this, and three of 'em confirmed this.I know that they are asked not to present themselves for communion, but excommunicated?
It’s not the sort of excommunication that requires a court, judgment and declaration. It is the "latae senteniae’ excommunication…according to the "Catholic Planet" website, it’s an excommunication that is instant…as soon as one takes the action, or even thinks the thought, one is excommunicated.Never known any Catholic politician to be excommunitcated for for voting in a manner contrary to what the CC teaches, not even the Kennedy’s.![]()
Only when the other guy is pulling HIS punches.Wow Diana…
Have some mercy. Cotton-tail rabbits indeed. Have you ever heard of pulling a punch?
Latae sententiae excommunications aren’t reserved for “anti-Catholic” Catholics. They apply to Catholics, period. Shoot, I didn’t know that such excommunications even existed until a week or so ago; finding out how they worked was quite an interesting insight into Catholicism.Anyway…I did not know that anti-Catholic Catholic politicians are excommunicated automatically. Where did you get that info? If that would make you would be afraid…I would be thrilled. Did the source by chance use the term latae sententiae?