I don’t see, in this particular thread, much actual resistance to to the EF, so much as people stating their
preference for the OF, among those who prefer it. I am 61, so I was raised in the EF. If the Church were to return to the EF as the ordinary form of the Mass, I would accept it graciously and not put up any resistance. I don’t dislike the EF, I just prefer the OF. But I am not subject to much actual liturgical abuse, just some less than stellar music

(although we only use an organ and piano for music, except for the Lifeteen Masses). Our Masses, including LifeTeen, are pretty much by the book, without innovations.
In my parish at large there has not been much of an interest in the EF, and we have pretty much of a mixture of ages. The people of my age group, whom I’ve talked to about it, are really not interested in a return. There isn’t any real hostility expressed about a return, more of non-interest, they like things the way they are. There is an FSSP parish in the Diocese, within an hour or less of driving distance from where I live, so that may be meeting the needs of the people who prefer the EF.
I don’t think you can extrapolate, from this thread, the general attitude of the majority of Catholics, even older ones, about a return to the EF. It is a very small sampling, and most of the people on these forums are a little more interested in these matters than the average parishoner. But, like I said earlier, I don’t see much actual resistance, just preferences being stated.
As an interesting side note, if you would talk to my mother, who is 83, and her friends, you would find a definite resistance to returning to the EF and the pre-Vatican II Church. I have no explanation for that, other than they felt the Church was too “controlling” back then, and too clergy-centered, and they like the Mass in the vernacular. And that’s a whole generation before me.