Um, u missed the part where I said I love him?
He did not say, “I’m relieved you know, because I wanted to tell you and didn’t know how. I am so sorry. I don’t know how I’m ever going to make this up to you.” He did not say, “Where did you get anything like that? I’ve always been faithful to you. Has Sarah been trying to get you to believe she’s seduced me or something? I don’t know who else would make up a story like that.”
No, he asked you how you knew.
I’ve been in your position. Be kind, but let him go. You don’t know if he doesn’t know what he wants, or if he knows and doesn’t want to hurt you by saying it, or if he simply doesn’t have enough connection to you to be faithful to you. You don’t have to know, because you know he’ll cheat on you and then hide it from you afterwards and won’t even apologize for that when he is found out.
If you’re going to have anything with him, let it start from scratch after he’s had a good long time to grow up and get his head on straight. Honestly, based on all the couples I’ve known over the course of my life, I’d say leave and don’t go back. At the very least, let Ms. Homewrecker have her chance at him. The chances are that she’ll get him and down the road you’ll see she got exactly what she deserved. Sad, but true.
