How much should be spent to care for a pet?

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If there is not enough money to care for a pet, one should not get one. As long as they are not getting into trouble for helping their pet I think it’s alright. I mean, hopefully, they’re still paying their rent and utilities and have money to buy their groceries and maintain all their responsibilities, it should be OK. I think.
But ultimately what’s “enough money to care for a pet” isn’t really knowable, in the sense that “care” also includes medical/surgical treatment in case of an illness or accident. No one gets a pet with the expectation that they might face a $1500. vet charge for some urgent care, and they certainly don’t put aside something like that. But facing a situation like that is increasingly common as veterinary medicine is able to do more sophisticated treatment.
 
They are adults and it is not your concern. Telling them to not spend so much on their
pet could cause hard feeling that might last for sometime.
 
I have a friend that breeds her dog and makes about $6000 per litter. That little dog is a paying asset, so if it is a breedable dog that would not be excessive.

For me if it was a “mutt” I would find it excessive.

However, if they can afford it and this is the worst problem you have with them, is it really worth damaging a relationship over what may be a private matter of confession and not public scandal? There are a many more important things to worry about than this.
 
I have a friend that breeds her dog and makes about $6000 per litter. That little dog is a paying asset, so if it is a breedable dog that would not be excessive.

For me if it was a “mutt” I would find it excessive.

However, if they can afford it and this is the worst problem you have with them, is it really worth damaging a relationship over what may be a private matter of confession and not public scandal? There are a many more important things to worry about than this.
Dogs are sentient beings and God’s creatures too. Their value should not be based on their commercial value. I have not heard anyone question the cost of cars, holidays, hobbies or any other expenses of their family/relatives/friends.
 
Cattle, pigs and chickens are also. It is likely you eat or have eaten those.

After a point spending a large sum of money to prolong the life of an animal is foolish and frankly economics should play a factor in it as you are stewards of the gifts God has given you. It is likely more just to humanly put down an ailing animal than to spend exorbitant amounts of money on it.
 
All: as explained above in the Catechesis, spending inordinate money on pets or animals, especially to the detriment of your family, is plainly wrong.

Also, there is a big racket among vet-like places to charge enormous sums for nothing, where as a good vet will not charge $3000 for surgery.

Many of those posting in this thread seem to go overboard for their pets.
 
Cattle, pigs and chickens are also. It is likely you eat or have eaten those.

After a point spending a large sum of money to prolong the life of an animal is foolish and frankly economics should play a factor in it as you are stewards of the gifts God has given you. It is likely more just to humanly put down an ailing animal than to spend exorbitant amounts of money on it.
I don’t eat any animal but that is not relevant. There are some human beings whose lives are a waste of fresh air but I would not advocate letting them die.

You have your views, they would never be mine.
 
All: as explained above in the Catechesis, spending inordinate money on pets or animals, especially to the detriment of your family, is plainly wrong.

Also, there is a big racket among vet-like places to charge enormous sums for nothing, where as a good vet will not charge $3000 for surgery.

Many of those posting in this thread seem to go overboard for their pets.
As long as we are not asking money from you, not for you to judge or tell us what to do… Since you obviously don’t care for animals, what do you know about vet practices really? Throughout the world, in the US, in your city?
 
By the same argument, people should not spend so much on golf, travel, cars… the list can go on.

Ultimately it’s a personal decision as to how much someone can afford to spend on their pet, and the value they place on that pet plays heavily into that. And that’s different for each person. I personally would spend whatever was necessary as long as it was for the good of my pet. But I plan for that. I save money throughout the year to cover vet expenses and I have pet insurance. But I also pay my bills, I tithe, I donate to human and animal charities. So how I choose to spend my extra money is my business. If you don’t want to spend it on your pets, fine. But my pet is my family – I am single. She’s who I talk to when I come home, who’s happy to see me when I walk in the door. I live about two and a half hours from my nearest family. Is she human? No. But she certainly adds value to my life and I am appreciative for that gift that God gave me.
 
All: as explained above in the Catechesis, spending inordinate money on pets or animals, especially to the detriment of your family, is plainly wrong.

Also, there is a big racket among vet-like places to charge enormous sums for nothing, where as a good vet will not charge $3000 for surgery.

Many of those posting in this thread seem to go overboard for their pets.
I’m not sure what a “vet-like place” is, and while a “good vet” might not charge $3000 for surgery, a GREAT vet might, depending on the procedure being done and the animal involved. We have horses, and $3000 for a major surgical procedure on a horse is entirely possible and reasonable and most certainly not “plainly wrong.”
 
They’re adults, they earned their money, it’s their decision on how to spend it.

I’ve spent far more on pet care than I ever thought I would, but then it’s still never been more than I could afford. ( latest was ~2,000 in vet bills for one dog over the past 4 months) However, there are limits. To say whatever it takes is unrealistic and it has to come down to the specifics of the situation. 2,000 to prolong a dog’s life for a couple of months? 10,0000 for treatment after an accident? There does come a point where putting them down would be the option if I couldn’t afford the treatment.

I would not go as far for an animal as I would my child. I do not place animals on the same level as people.
 
Basically the OP asked if the Church gives any guidance on how much should be spent on the care of a pet. He didn’t asked if he should confront his family or what an exact amount is that should be spent. The Church does give guidance and it has been pointed out.

I too would have spent more on my pets before I had children, and when my children are grown I may once again put more into my pet. If someone chooses to forego eating out, cable, fancy cars, clothes, houses etc. and spend all extra income on their pets, that’s great. I believe the church just wants us to know however we spend our money, we need to remember to give back also and to not put anything above our love for God and fellowman.

Also, no one likes being told how to spend their money and I don’t like being told I shouldn’t own a pet if I wouldn’t move heaven and earth for it. Mistreating and neglecting an animal is not the same as refusing to pay as much as is needed to keep it alive.
 
Also, no one likes being told how to spend their money and I don’t like being told I shouldn’t own a pet if I wouldn’t move heaven and earth for it. Mistreating and neglecting an animal is not the same as refusing to pay as much as is needed to keep it alive.
On this we can totally agree!!!
 
Even though, as others have said, it is none of your business, if it makes you feel better you can think of the spending as providing a livelihood for the folks they’re paying the $3K to, such as the Vet, any assistants, the receptionist, the folks build build and maintain any medical equipment or devices, etc.

Maybe some receptionist’s kid gets to go to Parochial School because your kids spent money on their pet…🤷
 
Hi Larry,

Think people have been a bit harsh on you, $3000 is ALOT of money, and you only want the best for your daughter am sure. I would also question the value of spending so much on a new pet, who needs so much attention already. They may be setting themselves up for a lifetime of costs. I can see why you are worried. Sometimes I also question the scruples of vets who can take advantage of a young couples sweet enthusiasm, but there are some really good ones out there, hope your daughters family find the good vets, but maybe these lessons your daughter will learn after a few years of being a pet owner. Hopefully this dog will grow to be a loyal companion to them, and provide them and any future children security as well. BillP’s point is a very good one too. Animals give so much to their owners. Your daughters family must be trusting in God’s providence =)
 
Hi Larry,

Think people have been a bit harsh on you, $3000 is ALOT of money, and you only want the best for your daughter am sure. I would also question the value of spending so much on a new pet, who needs so much attention already. They may be setting themselves up for a lifetime of costs. I can see why you are worried. Sometimes I also question the scruples of vets who can take advantage of a young couples sweet enthusiasm, but there are some really good ones out there, hope your daughters family find the good vets, but maybe these lessons your daughter will learn after a few years of being a pet owner. Hopefully this dog will grow to be a loyal companion to them, and provide them and any future children security as well. BillP’s point is a very good one too. Animals give so much to their owners. Your daughters family must be trusting in God’s providence =)
They took the pet to Texas A&M for special tests. That’s not, I’m assuming, their regular vet. That’s usually an emergency-type situation – at least that’s what most people use it for – and therefore the prices are going to be more expensive because it’s an emergency room. It’s also a teaching hospital so they’re going to have different tests that they are capable of running. And, yes, I know what I’m talking about because I live in the town where Texas A&M is located and I’ve used their emergency services for my own pet.

But the point is it’s not up to the parents to decide what they’re grown, married, independent children choose to spend their money on. They can certainly provide guidance if it’s asked for – which is unclear in the OP whether they have asked – but otherwise it’s none of the OP’s business.
 
Yes, exactly. I love my pet and I would never say “I will pay until this financial border is reached”. If you think this way, please never get a pet.
I disagree. Do you realize how many animals would be euthanized if each pet owner has to agree the sky is the limit on spending? So many people could not care for animals if that was a requirement. Animals are wonderful, and I agree pet owners should take proper care to give their pets a good life. But if paying for your pets major surgery/expenses means you can’t pay your bills or take proper care of your children, give alms etc than it is sinful to spend the money on a pet at the expense of family well being. I have been a pet owner all my life. But we have sadly had euthanize a couple of our beloved pets over the years because the medical expenses were to great. Animals are wonderful but they are not people.
 
As far as the OP is concerned its none of his business unless his daughter is asking him for money to pay bills that she now can not pay because she spent it on the dog. His daughter is an adult married woman and if she can spend her money as she wishes.
 
For the OP’s question, it’s none of your business. An adult can choose where they spend their money. If the adult can afford to pay for the necessities and chooses to spend on a pet then that is their choice and it should be respected.
Also, no one likes being told how to spend their money and I don’t like being told I shouldn’t own a pet if I wouldn’t move heaven and earth for it. Mistreating and neglecting an animal is not the same as refusing to pay as much as is needed to keep it alive.
Yup.

My bottom line with pet spending is how much can I afford and what is the animals quality of life. If I can afford the vet bills, I have no problem spending the money to take care of my pets. If the animals quality of life is not good, I then think it’s time to consider euthanizing humanely.

I have an online pet forums buddy who had a seemingly healthy dog who had a few mystery lumps. The first couple were inexpensively removed and biopsied. Nothing. When it happened again he took the dog back to the vet and when the new lumps were removed it was revealed that the dog had cancer.

He could have spent $3000 - $5000 on surgeries and chemo or simply wait until the cancer advanced and the dog was starting to suffer and then say goodbye. He chose the latter. So many people accused him of neglect and cruelty. IMHO, it was the best decision he could have made for him and his pet and was NOT neglectful or in any way cruel. From his point of view, the money spent would have increased the dogs lifespan by a mere year at best and that year would have been spent recovering from various surgeries and going through the side effects of chemo. Would have been a miserable year.
 
For the OP’s question, it’s none of your business. An adult can choose where they spend their money. If the adult can afford to pay for the necessities and chooses to spend on a pet then that is their choice and it should be respected.

Yup.

My bottom line with pet spending is how much can I afford and what is the animals quality of life. If I can afford the vet bills, I have no problem spending the money to take care of my pets. If the animals quality of life is not good, I then think it’s time to consider euthanizing humanely.

I have an online pet forums buddy who had a seemingly healthy dog who had a few mystery lumps. The first couple were inexpensively removed and biopsied. Nothing. When it happened again he took the dog back to the vet and when the new lumps were removed it was revealed that the dog had cancer.

He could have spent $3000 - $5000 on surgeries and chemo or simply wait until the cancer advanced and the dog was starting to suffer and then say goodbye. He chose the latter. So many people accused him of neglect and cruelty. IMHO, it was the best decision he could have made for him and his pet and was NOT neglectful or in any way cruel. From his point of view, the money spent would have increased the dogs lifespan by a mere year at best and that year would have been spent recovering from various surgeries and going through the side effects of chemo. Would have been a miserable year.
Yes, this is the best approach IMO. We spent $2000 on our dog that was only one years old to have surgery, but it was a surgery that gave our dog a better quality of life for the next 10 or so years. We would have probably come to a much different decision if the surgery was required at the end of the dog’s life. My SIL thinks absolutely nothing of spending gobs of money on their dogs, including the above example of cancer treatment. It only helped the one dog live an additional 3 months. Its her and my brother’s money and if that’s the way they want to spend it, then so be it. But I wouldn’t be making the same decisions they make concerning treatment of a pet. I don’t plan on being buried with my pets either, as I have certain family members that think that’s a great idea. My dogs are my PETS, not my spouse or my child and will not be treated in the same manner as such.
 
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