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Thanks VC, I need to hear I am on track if I am.
Thank Dave. I think its wise to use it then, even if its just a ton of venial sins. I brush my teeth for the same reason. I don’t need to, but I don’t want decay. And, for the sake of others I do.![]()
It sounds like you’re very on track.Originally Posted by notsmart
I need to hear I am on track if I am.
Not going to confession often can mean that not only is it possible (if we don’t have perfect contrition) that we can’t worthily receive Our Lord in communion, but that at our earthly death (which may be 20,30,40 years away or may be in the next moment) we may spend the remainder of time in purgatory or even :bigyikes:. I love Him and the idea that I might spend all of eternity without Him scares me silly!!!Originally Posted by itsjustdave1988
**Therefore the opinion seems probable of those who say that a man is not bound to confess at once, though it is dangerous to delay.
**[St. Thomas Aquinas, Summa Theologica, suppl., 6, 5]
Originally Posted by Verbum Caro
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Originally Posted by brigid12
St. Thomas’ words seem to elevate this discussion from one of legalism to one of the spirit.
Hi Brigid,
That is an excellent passage of the Catechism (and St. Thomas). Good find!
Do you want to discuss it, as it relates to this thread?
Sure, if you think it would be helpful (it looks like Dave and Judith, et al have it well handled).
It might be helpful. I’m not sure that Dave or Judith have really spoken to this point, although Dave approached when mentioning the idea of “objective” sin and jmcrae approached when she mentioned grave matter.ISure, if you think it would be helpful (it looks like Dave and Judith, et al have it well handled).![]()
Tut! Is that a bit of Irish blarney/modesty?At any rate, please be gentle with me. I don’t have the intellect that it seems you and others on this thread seem to be blessed with.
No, just a layman. Although I’ve been a catechist.VC, Are you a CCD teacher or a priest or some religious?
Hi Brigid,VC,
Are you perchance (you can tell I’ve been reading a lot of older English) trying to find an objective difference between mortal and venial sins that can be ascertained by the sinner who isn’t actually * in persona christi* (or God Himself)? If so, I believe we can only get “in the ballpark” about whether our sins are mortal or venial
I don’t think it’s odd, the more frequently you go the more sensitive you are to your own need for His Mercy and the more you realize the difference in yourself of venial vs mortal sin (as long as your confessor is aware that you are feeling this need and isn’t worried that scrupulosity has a significant part to play in this - if so your conscience isn’t necessarily more sensitive, just disordered without growing closer to Him after all). The respect you show to Him - including when He’s Present in the Eucharist - is admirable and I wish more of our country felt the reverence toward His Commandments that you seem to have.Umm, off topic, sorta, but, is it at all odd that I have (HAVE) to go…on a weekly basis? And I’d jump at the chance for a daily sort of thing, but they have it only on Saturdays and by appointment. And I’d rather risk a few days that waste Father’s time.
For me at least, it’s inconceivable that anyone would
A Not NEED to go more that once a year
and
B Not WANT to go more than once a year.
I regret that I need to go, but even were I to maintain a state of grace for seven days (I’m working my way up to four) I’d still go that day. Abosolution! God’s mercy poured out! And in that state of grace that follows, I can then recieve the Most Blessed Sacrament!
I pesonally can’t stand to be near Our Lord’s flesh when mine own is so filthily stained, so wretchedly marred. My thoughts so perverted, my heart so twisted, and my soul so evil!
I think that the more one understands the theology of this sacrament, the more one would desire it. Unfortunately, many Catholics don’t understand the Divine purpose and power of the sacraments, so they think of it (at least this one) as a burden, instead of an opportunity to recieve supernatural, sanctifying grace from the hand of God Himself. With better catechesis from parents principally, and catechists and clergy as well, I think more Catholics would find great joy to find themselves standing in a long line for Confession every week.Umm, off topic, sorta, but, is it at all odd that I have (HAVE) to go…on a weekly basis? …