FOR ME the vernacular is, overall, more satisfying in that I hear the Canon and participate fully in English, which is my first language. I also hear the community I’m worshiping with in English (and without the need for a missal or the need to translate anything in my brain). I certainly respect those who prefer that kind of sacred worship, although I don’t understand the nostalgia for Latin as the language of liturgy.
You apparently are on the East Coast – I live on the West Coast, and I suspect that our orientation toward the OF may stem, in part, from that distinction.
Except for a few masses celebrated by older, cranky and tired priests, I haven’t personally experienced any OF mass that I would consider bland or boring, as some posts on this thread have described, nor have I seen any of the liturgical abuses so bemoaned here.
Reverance and sanctity don’t depend on the utilization of Latin – and the masses I attend regularly in my present diocese are, as I said, joyful, with 99.9% participation of the congregation, and attended by very involved, truly Christian Catholics who are active in parish activities. In this particular (very large) diocese, there is only one Latin mass offered biweekly and no clamor to expand that offering.
I’m nearly twice your age and I’m saying, without exaggeration, that until I joined this forum I did NOT know that such a conservative community existed or that there was such vocal distaste for the OF mass. It certainly does not represent any diocese I’ve lived in nor visited on this side of the MIssissippi.