It’s really hard at my parish. People talk really loudly both before and after mass, and it is nearly impossible to have a moment of silence in the prescence of Our Lord. I mean they don’t even have adoration, I have to drive over to the next town where they only have it on Fridays, and only when I’m not working do I get a chance to go over there… and not to mention that they lock the churches up now for the larger part of the day.
My area is ridiculous. I thank God that I’m moving to PA next fall for college where there’s two perpetual adoration chapels, and cathedrals, not to mention a EF only church, and every single one of the Eastern Catholic churches for me to escape the OF with
Actually, don’t get me wrong, I’ve been to some beautiful OF’s, but in my area the music is oh-so distracting and people seem to have no respect for the sacrifice of the mass
But I guess to answer your question… almost never. Maybe 2 Fridays a month. There are simply no other options

and it’s so hard sometimes