
I still prefer the Eastern view of him being an elderly widower. And since neither is dogmatic (as long as the view includes the PV), it’s the one I’ll stick with. I will say, though, that it’s not founded entirely on arguing for them actually being Jesus’ (step-)brothers. It also explains why Jesus entrusts Mary to one of his disciples while dying on the cross. Why would he do that if she still had a living husband?