true
but, from what it looks like in the early church, by not making the promise means you aren’t a part of the church. everyone else had everything in common.
If being in the Church meant they HAD to share verything in common, then why would St. Peter have said there was no sin until the dishonesty?
And, again, this is described as occurring only in the Jerusalem Church.
under penalty of DEATH!!! lol
Well, Scripture warns there is the “sin unto death”, but either way, this does not address the issue of how much money a Christian should have, but the issue of honesty (if you make a promise to God, you had better follow through).
i would agree it is to go beyond catholic teaching (i am not catholic so that is not a problem for me

), but i wouldn’t say it is going “beyond” scripture. i think scripture is giving us the example to aspire towards. the fact that “the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved” is a clear indication they were doing something extremely right. what acts says they were doing was sharing everything and taking care of each others’ needs.
I was merely bringing up the Catholic teaching issue in order to be more inclusive (gotta remember who the majority of our readers on this site are). But again, this only occurred in the Jerusalem Church, so what about everywhere else? (i.e. Rome, Antioch, Ephesus, Corinth, etc.)
Thank you for that non-responsive response.
but, in a sense, until we promise our lives to God, it is ours to do with as we please… that means we aren’t a part of God’s family if we are living with that attitude.
This sounds like overspritualization. For one thing, ‘promising our lives to God’ is never given as a Scriptural means of Salvation/eternal life in the same way that ‘surrendering our lives to Christ’ (a great evangelical phrase) is never even mentioned in Scripture.
Looking at Scripture, I believe Salvation comes through:
- Believing (better ‘trusting’) in Jesus Christ, esp. for Salvation (John 3:16, ‘trust’ that Jesus is who He says He is and can do what He says He can do is very important, cf. the story of the brazen serpent in Numbers 21:8-9)
- Believing that Jesus was resurrected (Romans 10:9)
- Confesssion (affirmation) that Jesus is Lord (basically, the word for ‘Lord’ here in Greek ‘kurios’ is not some spiritual ‘make Jesus the Lord of your life’ but is an affirmation that Jesus is God ‘kurios’ was used as a title for God in the Septuagint, the Greek translation of the Old Testmant])
?4) Baptism and partaking of the Holy Eucharist (I am not totally sure how these two relate to Salvation; after all, we see at least one person, the thief on the cross, who is never baptized and never partakes of the Lord’s Supper, but is promised entry into Paradise, but the normal method seems to be baptism accompanying Salvation and Eucharist/Lord’s Supper occurring in all areas of the Early Church; further, as an Anglican, I support infant baptism w/ later Confirmation)
?5) Good works will follow as a fruit of belief (notice that throughout Church history, there have been people who bore great fruit but who were quite wealthy and lived nicely such as St. Edward the Confessor who was the King of England)
Examining Roman Catholicism, their view of Salvation is connected to:
- Belief in Christ (obviously)
- Baptism (along with later Confirmation and Eucharist) enter someone into Christ’s Church
- Maintenance of Salvation is by not sinning and, when sin occurs, Sacramental Confession resolves mortal and venial sins and partaking of Holy Eucharist resolves venial sins
so where does who is in our family stop? ultimately we are all related. aren’t we all “children of God”? why is your child more important than the child on the street? i know why yours is more important to you, but not to God. and we are called to have the things of God in mind. it’s a challenging.
Look at the context and the linguistics. St. Paul is talking about immediate family (those in one’s household) and relatives (most likely spouse, children and parents, but also could include aunts/ uncles, cousins, in-laws, nieces/nephews, grandparents, etc.). Also, if people were more willing to help out their families (a failing in modern America where everyone expects the gov’t to provide for their elderly parents, etc.), then poverty would be greatly reduced (how many stories do we hear of the relatives of a wealthy person who live poorly though…shameful).
- Does everyone else have what they NEED to live?
By that definition, we should all be Franciscan monks or something (note that Anglicanism does have religious orders) since there is a great amount of poverty. Giving up property is only once required by Jesus (the Rich Young Ruler, whom I believe was a special case since he wanted to ‘earn’ his way to Salvation by being perfect and good as God) and the sharing of all possessions is shown only in the Jerusalem Church. In Roman Catholicism and Anglicanism, monasticism is viewed as a special calling (similar to a person who seek Holy Orders and such).
This is a personal observation. If your family is that wealthy then paying for college shouldn’t be a problem. You should be able to focus on helping those in need.
Who know? Maybe they are trying to teach her some form of responsibility by making her pay her own way. Also, even if they are paying for
everything (tuition, room and board, supplies, etc.), that doesn’t mean she personally has money (she may have necessities taken care of, but not much money in-pocket).