How to deal with my sexual immorality?Any good advice?

[Walking_Home]

silentfactor80:

I am assuming you are a guy based on your UN and most likely straight. We had another thread like this one recently so I will say the same here I said there.

1. Realize that the only woman in this world who probably cares about you is your mother and that’s because its a hormonal thing. The rest would probably laugh or careless if you croaked tomorrow.
2. Most women have a bit of feminist in them which means they think you owe them the world to pay for the crimes of some evil male instituted “patriarchal conspiracy.” Consequently the women you look at most likely think they owe you nothing in return.
3. If you still are not convinced Google “feminism is a hate group” and see what the lovely ladies you desire actually think about you. If that doesn’t turn you off then post back.

Once you’ve fully accepted the notion that the being you desire quite frankly hates you it is rather hard to want to give them anything as powerful as your sexuality.

Enough with your ‘women are terrible’ rhetoric. You use every opportunity to push your agenda.

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Yes – QFT

 

[hamandcheese]

he should not be allowing anyone to lead him into sin by giving them influence over him. Once you start believing in or chasing evil you give it influence over you. The power of influence is one men give to women too easily. It is time to correct that. Men and women will be better off in the long run.

You don’t have to chase evil to be tempted by it and it doesn’t matter if you believe in it or not it exists.

We are all unique individuals that sacrifice our individuality to fit in. Ever hear of peer pressure?

If this is your outlook then what about the peer pressure men succumb to from other men about sleeping with as many women as possible or viewing pornography, which is a billion dollar industry that is built on destroying women physically, physiologically, and spiritually. If you look at the way women are abused in this world, , sex trafficking, pornography, abortion, using your logic they have the right to be pissed off at men. We are not doing are job of protecting them.

You are wrong when you fall for the devils tactic of divide and conquer that pits women against men and it is you who are mired in this culture of death with your battle of the sexes ****. Men and women are one species created in the image of God. We suffer from the same temptations and weaknesses. Different but equal in dignity in the eyes of God.

 

[Gaerteuth]

Any advice would be helpful thank you guys.

Define “immorality”.

My definition of morality is whether another person suffers from your actions.

Rape obviously causes suffering. That’s gone.

Contraception on the other hand doesn’t because the zygote doesn’t even exist, rendering it impossible to cause it to suffer. Even if you had an abortion if the contraception failed, it would have no nervous system with which to feel pain, and no mind with which to contemplate it’s life and death.

Masturbation causes no suffering to anyone. Your view on it is simply a matter of which culture indoctrinated you.

Incest is subjective in that it can cause suffering or doesn’t. It was perfectly fine if you lived in ancient Armenia, but in ancient Israel you’d be stoned.

Sodomy does not cause suffering in the anthropic sense.

 

[Soren_Itenu]

Love Himself suffers and is offended by these so-called victimless actions. You are wrong, Gaerteuth. Dead wrong.

 

[silentfactor80]

You don’t have to chase evil to be tempted by it and it doesn’t matter if you believe in it or not it exists.

If this is your outlook then what about the peer pressure men succumb to from other men about sleeping with as many women as possible or viewing pornography, which is a billion dollar industry that is built on destroying women physically, physiologically, and spiritually. If you look at the way women are abused in this world, , sex trafficking, pornography, abortion, using your logic they have the right to be pissed off at men. We are not doing are job of protecting them.

You are wrong when you fall for the devils tactic of divide and conquer that pits women against men and it is you who are mired in this culture of death with your battle of the sexes ****. Men and women are one species created in the image of God. We suffer from the same temptations and weaknesses. Different but equal in dignity in the eyes of God.

No, he doesn’t have to chase it but it will still have influence over him if he allows it. The answer is reject the temptor.

How are men not harmed by pornography too? Male pornstars don’t even get paid most of the time. Many of the acts aren’t comfortable for guys either. Also, most women are not forced to pose in videos and many FEMINISTS call themselves “sex positive” meaning they think sex empowers women. When are people going to get that women seek out and exploit sex of their own free will. I know that’s a hard pill to take but they don’t need men to trick them.

Men and women many be one species but when the species can’t get along it needs a timeout. Seeing as how you are blaming men for all the ills women suffer I am proposing men just stop dealing with women by denying them the influence they have on us. That is not easily done but it is the first step in overcoming sexual immorality.

Also many of those ills you talk about are supported by feminism like abortion. Women march in streets for those “rights” and you can bet your last buck no man is making them do so. They think it empowers them and that is not the fault of men. The only legit issue you mentioned is sex trafficking. Feminists seem more concerned about birth control than sex trafficking though. Sandra Fluke makes money off of advocating for birth control.