How to find a lovely catholic girl?

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Arkansan said:
That is the reason why I’ve emphasized obedience and not its limits, because only the latter is challenged.
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I think you’d get a better response if you were more thorough in describing the limits, because just talking about wifely obedience makes it sound like carte blanche.
 
@DepressedLoner call your local parish. That’s what I did when I was having trouble attending Mass. Most parishes have someone who would be happy to pick up young adults who don’t have transportation. When I called I invariably found out I wasn’t the only one on that list!
 
@DpressedLoner,

I am from France!

I am never been to Autria, but Autria is (or was!) a catholic contry, so there are churches, mass, and catholics.
Of course, there will be more difficult to find young adults. But it is the case in many western european contries including mine.

And a good new : there is more young catholic girl than boys, so you have an advantage! 😀

The proposition of Dark Light seems good : you are certainely not alone with a problem with public tranportation. I never had a car myself, but there was always someone to transport me for catholics gatherings. I live in a city, not that big, which it help of course, and have always had churches not far from me.

Another suggestion wich can be helpfull : see the posibilities of attendings large catholics young gatherings such as World Youth Day, Taizé meetings in France and in European cities on the new year day, pilgrimages organised by youth ministries, charities… Your faith will be probably renew and perhaps you will find a woman.

It depends of what do you want but there is people who are ok to find a spouse far away, including aboard.

Because the state of the catholicism is what it is today, it is likely that your potential catholic traditional future wife is not next door.
 
adgloriam said:
If all else fails, man has final saying as to how the couple is to conduct themselves publicly (something like that)…
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It’s bad for either member of the couple to vociferously disagree with the other in public.

I have a friend whose husband does this to her in public, and I feel so bad for her whenever he does this.
 
To DepressedLoner,

I think a lot of us have sympathy for you. We have probably all felt the same way at one time or another. : )

Sometimes if we think too much about how much we want to find someone to love, that person never appears!

Do you have friends, buddies that you can hang out and do things with? Are you somehow isolated from a city or parish? Sometimes friends have sisters, other girls hanging around too! Maybe there is a parish youth group or something similar? Ask the parish office - - I would think there is someone there who would love to help you out. When you are feeling more happy and confident, that is often when the girls are most attracted to you!

Good luck to you and don’t worry about all the quarreling people here - - they need to start a different thread about obedience in Catholic marriage.

Note to the Americans here - - don’t you think he needs to find the Franciscan / Steubenville study abroad folks? They have a big Austria program, right?

Do you have an interest in something else where you might meet people? Do you play sports, play an instrument? Volunteer somewhere?
 
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Loud-living-dogma said:
Note to the Americans here - - don’t you think he needs to find the Franciscan / Steubenville study abroad folks? They have a big Austria program, right?
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Good call. Yes, Franciscan has a satellite campus in Gaming, Austria. I think FUS has one of the highest percentage of students that participate in a study abroad program because so many students spend a semester over there. Not sure how far the OP is from Gaming.
 
Hey, thanks for your answer! I have been to France numerous times and I even speak it somewhat decently.
I also feel like there aren’t many young catholic people anymore … This makes it pretty hard to find someone
 
Some time ago I played sports but due to a lack of time I stopped. Yeah, I have friends but not many …
 
Sorry your comment was hidden. That happened to me, too, on another thread.
 
Exactly! It’s hard for youngs catholics to live fully according our beliefs, to find someone… It’s how our world have become. But we are here on this forum to support each other.
 
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