I’m at the same place and have wanted one for a little over a year.
Anyway, I leave near a Convent and I was thinking about calling and checking there…
As for a SD, um…is the norm to give them a little money every now and then, or gifts…I know according to the Church, clergy can not ask for money. Religious sisters or brothers probably can…I don’t know…just something that I was thinking about today as well.