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The more demanding view is to consider the totality of what Scripture says, integrating it into our daily life, with constancy and cheerfulness.

Not picking what strums our sensibilities.
I do not see where this is relevant. The scripture I quoted pretty much speaks for itself. It is neither out of context nor irrelevant. The rest of chapter explains how insufficient knowledge is, as it will “pass away,” comparing all one can know to a dark glass.
 
We can be inclusive of people who are blind without compromising our values, right?
Actually, no. We can be inviting to all without compromising our values. We can accompany all towards acceptance of all truth. Inclusivity requires unity, which requires more than tolerance. It requires conversion. If a person does not want to give up the things that prevent true communion, then yes, we would compromise our values to offer full inclusion.

This reminds me a lot of cohabitation before marriage for some reason. One partner isn’t ready to fully commit. The other one says it’s ok, this is enough for now. They share everything that should be reserved for life together after entering the marriage covenant. Then there is never the urgency, the need, the reason to change, to commit, to
be drawn fully in in order to take part in something meaningful.

It isn’t a prelude to more, it is a cheap shadow of what should have been.

It isn’t effective. The following scriptures do not argue for that kind of welcoming apology to those who don’t understand or believe. Instead, they push for making people accountable for knowing right from wrong and acting accordingly, and if not, denying them inclusion.

Matthew 18:15-17
15 " If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother.
16 But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every word may be confirmed by the evidence of two or three witnesses.
17 If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the Church; and if he refuses to listen even to the Church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.

1 Corinthians 5:9-13
9 I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with immoral men;*
10 not at all meaning the immoral * of this world, or the greedy and robbers, or idolaters, since then you would need to go out of the world.
11 But rather I wrote to you not to associate with any one who bears the name of brother if he is guilty of immorality or greed, or is an idolater, reviler, drunkard, or robber-not even to eat with such a one.
12 For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Is it not those inside the Church whom you are to judge?
13 God judges those outside. " Drive out the wicked person from among you."
 
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No I do not have a problem with the Sacrament of Confession, which is where I speak to priests.

Sorry if I’ve confused yourself or anyone else.

Jim
 
Good Morning Teek, I hope your advent is closing well!
In the Church, I don’t feel that defending one interpretation of a belief or another makes you a “Liberal” or a “Conservative.” It is either Truth that is consistent with Church teaching throughout time, or not.
So how do you feel about the words “as revelation unfolds”? Does they seem to be contrary to the faith?
The inclusivity of the Church is defined by God, not man.
I agree.

If a person wants to be in communion, is this not in a sense “baptism by desire”?
are they doing what we know to be necessary to enter heaven, and could God be calling me to support them in finding their way to truth?
This is a great question. I think we all need to support one another in finding our way to truth!
Live and let live is abandonment when a soul is in jeopardy. We are called to reach through the gates of hell and pull our fellow man to safety, before the gate slams shut for eternity.
Teek, this statement goes to the crux of the matter. I honor your position on this, as it comes from a very natural place. You are believing that God slams a gate, right? That it is not a matter of a person choosing hell, but God judges a worthiness. What you are saying is that It makes sense that some people are not worthy, right?
Yes, the Creed is the formula for our faith, but the Church doesn’t operate in formulas… There is only one right understanding of the Creed.
If a person does not know all of the right understanding, and because of such lack, he holds to some beliefs that are contrary to the catechism, but still desires communion, is he not included in the Church?
Not mine. The Church’s.
Sorry about the implication, it was unintended. I know that you are not saying that this is all about you.
Perhaps, in a certain sense. Hope is found in people’s desire to be in communion, for certain. But it is more of a potential for unity than it is an achieved unity.
Unity is achieved in the hearts of those who embrace Eucharist as what unifies. If a person is dedicated to the premise that doctrine (and interpretation of doctrine) is primarily what unifies, then they understandably see disunity. Personally, there is not a single Christian with whom I do not have unity. However, I also honor a more exclusive approach. Do you see Pope Francis as coming from a more inclusive, or more exclusive, position?
 
…If it were proof of unity, there would be no disagreement on this forum…
Well, you are referring to a “head” unity. Isn’t unity a matter of relationship, though? Do we all not have loved ones who disagree with us? Isn’t unity found and grounded in such love?
God is limited by nothing whatsoever…
Yes! And thanks for sharing. As you see, I’m trying to limit my comments. I also have amazing spiritual encounters through Eucharist. 🙂
…But it wasn’t enough to qualify.
This goes back to the “crux of the matter” above.
If a person does not want to give up the things that prevent true communion, then yes, we would compromise our values to offer full inclusion.
I guess it depends on what values take precedent. When I am in relationship, I include people. It is the relationship that takes precedent, and relationship itself is the basis of my own inclusion of people. I include you, Teek. If you had some misunderstanding of doctrine, even to the degree that you were involved in grave sin, I would include you in who I see as loved and forgiven by our Father. And then, if a person, even a hierarchy of people, were to exclude someone that I would not, does this exclusion mirror the Abba that I know from within, the Abba I know through my own prayer life? Well no, it does not. On the other hand, I honor the approach, and understand it. Also, I love the people at the top of the hierarchy no matter what they say or do; and in the spirituality I know, my inclusion follows my love.

Could God possibly be less forgiving, less inclusive, less unifying than I am in my own relationships? If so, please inform me. 🙂
 
Not me, but how the Church uses this particular part of Scripture to prohibit people from receiving Holy Communion, if they’re in a state of mortal sin, unless they get to a priest for Confession.

It makes the verse we pray at Mass, “Lord, I am not worthy for you to enter under my roof, but only say the word and my soul shall be healed” seem empty.

Either Jesus makes us worthy to receive Him, or He doesn’t.

If a person who has repented in his heart and feels the call to receive the Holy Eucharist, he should not hold back. This was told to me by a Catholic Priest who is also a theologian,. The state of mortal sin is more than what we think.
Jim, your words are not the teaching of the Catholic Church. The state of mortal sin is that of separation from God to a mortal, fatal degree, and the norm for forgiveness is sacramental confession, not ‘feeling forgiven’ and not the penitential rite at Mass which forgives not mortal, but venial sin.

The Church ‘uses the Scripture’ as Christ has requested. Shouldn’t we be obeying Him?
 
The huggy generation needs to learn these harder and more growth oriented ways. They need to mature, to grow up, and see things as they really are.

They never think about true growth: they just want brief smiles and hugs.
Yeah, what is needed is longer, non-superficial hugs. 🙂

Seriously, though, did you read my other response to this post?
 
I don’t recall Jesus telling the Apostles to use Scripture when spreading the Good News.

In fact, there was no New Testament Canon established for 257 year after Jesus’ Ascension.

Jim
 
So Scripture just 'popped into existence after 257 years but before then wasn’t used?

And since I quoted your post you should have realized that I was responding (as indicated by the quote around Scripture) to your post regarding 'the Church uses this particular part of Scripture to prohibit etc etc.

so you are creating a strawman here Jim.
 
The New Testament Canon was not established until 257 AD

Beforehand, mostly oral tradition was used to teach the Gospel.

It’s why the Church never held to Sola Scriptura, as a tradition.

Jim
 
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Good Morning Teek, I hope your advent is closing well!
Good morning! I can’t believe the last week of advent is one day. It’s so strange! I hope yours is as well.

I am enjoying this discussion. I hope you know that I am reflecting on what I believe, not trying to tell you you are wrong or argue. As long as we can both accept each other’s position in that light, this might be fruitful. I am always trying to find people who hold a different position than I do to debate/dialogue with. I always learn something I didn’t know, or a new way of looking at things. I really admire your tolerance (in the good sense) and your willingness to be un-offended. That is really a choice— and I love when people are able to put aside pride and be a voice of reason. Good work!

Please don’t be offended if I disagree or reassert a postition. I actually come on the forum to practice having conversations about faith. I teach RCIA, and so I am confronted weekly by people’s challenges to the faith. Here I can try to explain, and get many different responses—many of the ways people might react to one statement at once. It informs me on where I am unclear, where I am ineffective in my explanations, and where I am flat out wrong. It helps me do better work for the Lord for the people He draws to our RCIA class. So I tend to be slightly argumentative, or I’ll keep trying to make a point way past it’s purpose, just trying to sound out the point in the right way. Just put the kibosh on it, if needed. 😣 I will commit to being unoffendable, myself.
So how do you feel about the words “as revelation unfolds”? Does they seem to be contrary to the faith?
No, they are not contrary to the faith. Jesus was quite plain about that.

John 16:12-13
12 "I have yet many things to say to you, but you cannot bear them now.
13 When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth; for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come.”

To me, this means that, first of all, revelation will unfold through the guidance of the Holy Spirt. Second, it means that we can know what was meant clearly and definitively through the Church. The Holy Spirit ensures that the Church will have the answers that we need to understand God’s will in the time that the need arises to know more. God is Truth. He came that we might know the Truth. He sent the Holy Spirit that we might have the fullness of Truth. He gave us the Gifts of the Holy Spirit through Confirmation to strengthen us individually in the Truth. And He establishes His Church to protect, preserve, and guarantee the truth. If you and I disagree, we can go to the Church’s Deposit of Faith and find out which of us is right, if either. If we disagree on a matter of objective truth, one of us is wrong. We might both be wrong. But we cannot both be RIGHT. But the Church is, and so we can know the Truth.
 
I’ve been avoiding this thread, probably simply because of its title.
Since I’m replying to posts that are a week old, I realize that the discussion may have already proceeded beyond these observations.
Nevertheless…
One error occurs when one group claims that people of one particular political/ideological affiliation are themselves more worthy of the Eucharist than the other.
Your post made sense… up until this part. I’m not certain why you’re characterizing things in this way, but it’s a subtle (yet critical) mischaracterization. The issue here isn’t “I’m more worthy than you to receive the Eucharist”, it’s a simple matter of whether there’s a factual basis upon which to say, “I’m sorry, but you cannot receive the Eucharist at this time.”
I have two examples from close friends in my parish who have publically shared their concerns.
These are good examples. I think there were real opportunities for you to help them understand what is really going on:
When Pope Francis endorsed the letter approving admitting the divorced and remarried to Communion as the only response to AL, she came to my house and demanded that I explain why she had to suffer so much if it didn’t really matter. She demanded how anyone in her situation could find Truth if they were left in their tepid indifference. She was so conflicted and confused.
This is the point where you had the opportunity to reply, "it’s not that all divorced and remarried are being offered a new route to return to the Eucharist! In fact, the goal here is precisely to provide a means for people to come to the realization that you did! If, however, they’re in an untenable situation, and this realization is coming rather slowly, then this is a means to help them reach the understanding that you’ve already attained! It’s not a process to “leave [them] in their tepid indifference!”
When he heard about AL, he said, “If I had been in one of the diocese that accepted this garbage, I would never have accepted the Eucharist.”
I think I would have challenged him (gently): was this process he underwent – of understanding what we say the Eucharist is – dependent on the means by which people reach it? That is, he came to understand by hitting a brick wall and a ‘no’. Can people not come to understand by means of a process that invites them to slowly accept the teaching?
 
If a person wants to be in communion, is this not in a sense “baptism by desire”?
That we cannot know—the desires of a person’s heart. That is a matter for God’s judgement.

I don’t think that is the sense that is meant by that phrase. “Baptism by desire” is a specific way of describing a hope that we have in God’s mercy. The “baptism of desire” is not about the struggle to accept what the Church teaches, long term, debating the nuances of what we think is meant in spite of the Church’s teaching. It is actually about baptism itself, not about working out our salvation as Christians.

CCC 1259 “For catechumens who die before their Baptism, their explicit desire to receive it, together with repentance for their sins, and charity, assures them the salvation that they were not able to receive through the sacrament.”

From the Church Fathers:
“[The spiritual man] shall also judge those who give rise to schisms, who are destitute of the love of God, and who look to their own special advantage rather than to the unity of the Church; and who for trifling reasons, or any kind of reason which occurs to them, cut in pieces and divide the great and glorious body of Christ, and so far as in them lies, destroy it—men who prate of peace while they give rise to war, and do in truth strain out a gnat, but swallow a camel. For they can bring about no ‘reformation’ of enough importance to compensate for the evil arising from their schism. . . . True knowledge is that which consists in the doctrine of the apostles, and the ancient constitution of the Church throughout all the world, and the distinctive manifestation of the body of Christ according to the successions of the bishops, by which they have handed down that Church which exists in every place [i.e., the Catholic Church]” (Against Heresies, 4:33:7–8 [A.D. 189]).

However, St. Faustina Kowalska told of visions she had of people at the moment of death, just before their choice is final, being given an opportunity to encounter and accept God’s mercy. We don’t know what happens then. We trust God’s mercy.

In that sense I think you are very right. I would not call it a baptism of desire, but the Church teaches that God’s mercy does not dismiss the longing of a person’s heart as irrelevant.

I fear I have gone off track with that one, and may be missing what you meant to ask. If so, please try again because I do want to communicate clearly.
 
“Live and let live is abandonment when a soul is in jeopardy. We are called to reach through the gates of hell and pull our fellow man to safety, before the gate slams shut for eternity.”

Teek, this statement goes to the crux of the matter. I honor your position on this, as it comes from a very natural place. You are believing that God slams a gate, right? That it is not a matter of a person choosing hell, but God judges a worthiness. What you are saying is that It makes sense that some people are not worthy, right?
I may have expressed myself poorly, but, no, that is not what I meant. At the first moment we are dead, the gate has shut. Our choices become final. There is no second chance. In that respect, we are called to do battle on earth to save others from peril, before their death.

What I am saying is that the parameters for our choice is while we are living. Then our opportunity for choosing is over. We lock the door on God.

It makes sense that He allows us to make that choice. He granted us free will. If He were to save us anyway, even though we chose to reject Him, then we were not truly free. In this sense, our rejection of God makes us ultimately unworthy of God.

We do face two judgements by God, the particular judgement at the end of our death, and the general judgement at the end of time. The first judges the good and bad we have chosen in our life. The second judges the ripple effect of those choices on all others. They are not about our worth as far as who we are, for He created us all good. It is about the only thing we possess that is truly our own autonomy—our free will, and how we used it. It makes the parable of the talents that much more of a challenge.
 
Yes, the Creed is the formula for our faith, but the Church doesn’t operate in formulas… There is only one right understanding of the Creed.

If a person does not know all of the right understanding, and because of such lack, he holds to some beliefs that are contrary to the catechism, but still desires communion, is he not included in the Church?
Of course, he is included in the Church. His beliefs that are contrary to the Church are not equal to the Church’s teaching, or to the beliefs of one who is conformed to the truth. The question you had originally raised was whether it was wrong to believe one was more worthy of inclusion in the Church than someone else who holds to a different ideology than you. I was answering objectively that conformation to Truth determines objective worthiness.

To the extent that this person’s ignorance is willful, however, he could be culpable before God for his erroneous beliefs, and for all those that his willful erroneous beliefs have led astray.

That is not for us to judge, but it is important for all to be aware of this possibility when examining ourselves and our own motives. It is important as Christians to actively seek truth and knowledge so that we do not remain in error.
 
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Unity is achieved in the hearts of those who embrace Eucharist as what unifies. If a person is dedicated to the premise that doctrine (and interpretation of doctrine) is primarily what unifies, then they understandably see disunity. Personally, there is not a single Christian with whom I do not have unity. However, I also honor a more exclusive approach. Do you see Pope Francis as coming from a more inclusive, or more exclusive, position?
Unity can be to degrees. All Christians possess unity to the extent that they are unified in one Lord, one faith, and baptism, and one Church. All Christians profess one Lord, and, more or less, one baptism (if done as Christ commanded.) They do not profess one faith, nor are they united in one Church.

So, between Christians: yes, there is unity. And yes, there is disunity. At the same time.

I honor Christ’s directives. All authentic “exclusivity” is based on His word alone. All unity that ignores His requirements for inclusivity is a false unity. What difference does it make if we include what God has defined as excluded? We are not God.

Pope Francis is very inclusive and devoted to the unity of all people as children of God. He seems to be unconcerned by areas of dis-unity.
 
“…If it were proof of unity, there would be no disagreement on this forum…”

Well, you are referring to a “head” unity. Isn’t unity a matter of relationship, though? Do we all not have loved ones who disagree with us? Isn’t unity found and grounded in such love?
No, unity is a matter of truth. Tolerance is a matter of relationship. Truth cannot be compromised in pursuit of a false unity that lets everyone feel fine where they are, if they are not fine where they are.

True unity is found and grounded in love. A love that prefers your eternal good over making you feel included.
Teek, this statement goes to the crux of the matter. I honor your position on this, as it comes from a very natural place. You are believing that God slams a gate, right? That it is not a matter of a person choosing hell, but God judges a worthiness. What you are saying is that It makes sense that some people are not worthy, right?

“…But it wasn’t enough to qualify.”

This goes back to the “crux of the matter” above.
If God said, “Unless you do these things, you have rejected me.” And we go on to say, “Well, I don’t think he really meant that. I like to think God meant…” and we go on to disregard what He said. We didn’t actually change the rules by justifying disobedience, or alter the consequences for not following them. Only God could do this, and He does not.

It will be according to God’s word, not ours.

God said, “Doing this makes you unworthy.”

If I do it, I have made myself unworthy by God’s judgement of what is worthy.

It is not God shutting me out, rejecting me, or excluding me. I have excluded myself.
When I am in relationship, I include people. It is the relationship that takes precedent, and relationship itself is the basis of my own inclusion of people.
Yes, we do not reject people. Personal relationships do not require unity of belief, only acceptance of the other as created in the image and likeness of the Father. Respect. That is different than theological unity in religion and faith. I do not possess unity of belief with a person who is Hindu, or atheist. But I can include them, and invite them.

If I told my Islamic friend that I consider him to be Christian because I want to include him, he will be offended. He will reject that vehemently. He is not Christian, he is offended that I believe Jesus is the Son of God, and he wants nothing to do with it. We are still great friends. I do not reject him. I reject his denial of Christ, his belief that Mohammad will be wed to Mary in the afterlife, and many other things.

That does not mean he has noting to worry about when it is time for his particular judgement. He has denied Christ.
 
If you had some misunderstanding of doctrine, even to the degree that you were involved in grave sin, I would include you in who I see as loved and forgiven by our Father.
It doesn’t matter what you think of whether I would be loved and forgiven by the Father. It doesn’t matter what I believe about you, and whether you are. It matters what God has revealed to us.

He has revealed that the way is narrow and few will enter. It would do me no good to be confirmed in my sinfulness. A true Christian friend would try to help me overcome my sinfulness so that I might have happiness with the Father in heaven. The alternative is “abysmal.” (Ha, ha—theology pun.)

Until I resolved my grave sin and repented, my soul would be in peril. Mortal sin is a concrete act of my rejection of God’s saving grace.

Any friend that is totally fine with the loss of my soul, and prefers to be my buddy to saving my eternal life, is not offering me a very convincing level of love.

I have been held accountable by friends before. It is not fun. It made me mad, and spiteful, and made the sin so uncomfortable in my soul that I finally did something about it and repented and was set free by grace. It shook me out of complacency and forced me to choose. Without that act of true friendship, which threatened the friendship itself, I would still be happily gilding my cage.

I had friends at the time that tried to make me more comfortable with my lifestyle. They helped me feel like God loved me enough not to care—did I really think He’d put me in hell for THAT?

Praise God for the friends that loved me enough to lose me so that I would not lose myself!
in the spirituality I know, my inclusion follows my love.
I disagree. In the spirituality I know, sometimes the greatest act of love is exclusion. (Continued…)
 
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