How to handle teasing

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i often get teased but i refused to say anything back because im afraid that i ‘sin’…
sometimes it gets to the point where it affect my emotion… i dont know what to do… 😦
 
Teasing can be a form of bullying. Ask the teasers to please stop what they are doing, and if they do not, then take it to the next level. If you are a student, notify the teachers and administration you are being bullied. If you are in a workplace, take it to your HR department.
 
I was constanly teased as a kid growing up. Reporting it to teachers, principals, etc. will only make the teasing worse. Just ignore it and eventually they’ll realise they aren’t getting a rise out of you and they’ll quit.
 
I was also teased and bullied at school. Ignoring for me never helped, and telling made things worse because there was no such thing as groups of peers against bullying… so most of the kids just joined in or ignored what was going on.

I have no answer for you, only prayers because I know that it does hurt. I also never had a Catholic forum to help me to put things in a Christ centered perspective such as “carrying my cross” or “seeking comfort in God” This I think, is a step for you in relieving the hurt.

I’ll keep you in my prayers
 
i will keep you in all my prayers my friend, i am teased too sometimes. i would suggest you read some stuff from Divine Mercy In My Soul-Dairy of Saint Maria Faustina Kowalska or The Story of a Soul - The Autobiography of Therese of Lisieux both of these Saints suffered tough lives.
Remember, if its because your religious that there teasing you, your being a martyr, and if its just general teasing, and dont fight back because of Christ, your still doing this of Jesus.

Jesus Christ is your friend, don’t forget that. (click His name)

and remember your not alone, there are a lot of people being insulted, and not insulting back for Christ. God Bless you.
 
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i will keep you in all my prayers my friend, i am teased too sometimes. i would suggest you read some stuff from Divine Mercy In My Soul-Dairy of Saint Maria Faustina Kowalska or The Story of a Soul - The Autobiography of Therese of Lisieux both of these Saints suffered tough lives.
Remember, if its because your religious that there teasing you, your being a martyr, and if its just general teasing, and dont fight back because of Christ, your still doing this of Jesus.

Jesus Christ is your friend, don’t forget that. (click His name)

and remember your not alone, there are a lot of people being insulted, and not insulting back for Christ. God Bless you.
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hi! i have been teased because of scapular,rosary and for believing in catholic when im buddhist… i have carry all my cross with dignity and because i love JESUS and HIS MOTHER! thank you so much for your kind words… im so much in comfort that through all crosses i know that Jesus,His Mother and God has never left me… 🙂
 
Blessedchild said:
i often get teased but i refused to say anything back because im afraid that i ‘sin’…
sometimes it gets to the point where it affect my emotion… i dont know what to do… 😦
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Greetings Blessedchild,

Look to the one who was teased in every single way even unto death. Look to Jesus on the Cross. Ask for the grace to persevere in it. Bear it and offer it united with His Sacrifice.

God Bless.
Anathama Sit
 
There is a zero bullying policy at my school and where my son goes to high school. Reporting it WILL help.

Suffering in silence is not good. Seek out the help of a trusted teacher or principal. Believe me, action will be taken.
 
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