How to know if I were gay

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Take a look at the short “boys beware” film on youtube, you’ll see how men would work on teenage boys back in my day. But that was one on one promotion, just doesn’t create the numbers that putting it on nationwide TV does.
They paraded out that film to my sixth grade class. Some kids were shocked, others thought it was funny. One thing that struck me about it that was terrible. In the film the victim was charged by the police, [ as well as the man] and given probation. I couldn’t believe they would charge the victim.

That is what we grew up believing during the 70s. If you got attacked, they could throw you in jail or give you probation.
 
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Have you considered the possibility that maybe “boys beware” didn’t actually portray a real widespread phenomenon but was actually just silly fear mongering? 😮
 
If you exclusively want to be in an emotional and sexual relationship of a member of the same gender, you’re gay.
 
Have you considered the possibility that maybe “boys beware” didn’t actually portray a real widespread phenomenon
Exactly, it wasn’t widespread back in my own youth. And neither were a lot of other things they warned us about- other films warned about drug addiction, cirrhosis, emphysema, tertiary syphilis. None of which were particularly widespread but it still doesn’t mean that it wasn’t useful to warn us about them.

They were doing their best to give a little street smarts to know it all city kids.
 
Not sure how that has to do with multiple threads on homosexuality, though.
 
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I read most of what was said in this post. I have been dealing with same-sex attractions; I don’t think I was born like this. I don’t even think it’s a decision. I think it is somewhat learned. It’s hard to explain, but I think that society kind of makes us this way from homosexuality constantly being discussed/being around it and constantly seeing it in the media. I hope what I’m saying makes sense. Maybe it could go both ways — maybe people ARE born a homosexual, and some just take on the patterns of society. I don’t know.
 
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I read most of what was said in this post. I have been dealing with same-sex attractions; I don’t think I was born like this. I don’t even think it’s a decision. I think it is somewhat learned. It’s hard to explain, but I think that society kind of makes us this way from homosexuality constantly being discussed/being around it and constantly seeing it in the media. I hope what I’m saying makes sense. Maybe it could go both ways — maybe people ARE born a homosexual, and some just take on the patterns of society. I don’t know.
For what it’s worth, I had never even heard of homosexuality when these feelings first manifested in me round about the year 1975 or so. I didn’t have a name for it, I just knew how I felt, and feel. Whether I was born this way is irrelevant, the way I see it. The truth is, the feelings exist, and I didn’t ask for them, or choose them, and nor do I delight in them. No sane person would have chosen this life, especially in 1975.
 
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@kill051 Hm, I see what you’re saying… I don’t know. There are probably a lot of reasons why.
 
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I just wish people would search previous threads before posting
I have oftened wondered if there is not a particular agenda behind the multitude of threads…I got to thinking about how many there are here and did Google search on Catholicism and homosexuality, gay, ect…and the first hits are CAF…so some poor souls looking for direction on Catholicism and homosexuality, they see a plethora of these threads that basically sew more confusion…
 
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I have softened wondered if there is not a particular agenda behind the multitude of threads…I got to thinking about how many there are here and did Google search on Catholicism and homosexuality, gay, ect…and the first hits are CAF…so some poor souls looking for direction on Catholicism and homosexuality they see a plethora of these threads that basically sew more confusion…
I think it’s good to have the interaction, personally. The people doing this are reaching out for a personal connection with people they know are believers. Even if they are doing it to “stir the pot” it gives us a chance to show the love of God to them, show them the truth of our faith, and make personal connections with those who may not know or interact with Catholics in their real life. For good or malice, they were still led here and what a privilege to share our faith! 🙂
 
No argument from your view, but also am aware the satan can use good intentions to his advantage also…not everyone is as altruistic as we would like them to be.
 
True, but God can use even bad intentions for good. For example - I am only Catholic because as a protestant I was dating a faithful Catholic and I couldn’t be ordained as a pastor in my church if I married a Catholic, so I set out to covert him. I went to Mass just to mock the whole thing, sow doubt in his mind, and pull him into my church. Altruism had NOTHING to do with my intentions…and yet, here I am. Because, despite my scoffing and attempts to rip his faith apart, I was met with love and knowledgeable people who could explain things to me.

Edit to Add: I thought God was calling me to convert the idolator (I was really against Catholicism), and in a way…He was. He was inviting me to try, so He could ultimately win my heart. I think even those called to scoff are still called. SOMETHING is drawing them in! 🙂
 
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I think you misunderstood. If I remember the film, it was aimed at convincing boys that gay men were looking to molest them. I’m saying I don’t think that was actually true…at least not any more true than straight men in general are looking to molest little girls.
 
Hooray, another “gay” thread! There can never be too many!
 
I know right. Too bad that other threads don’t have as much participation.
 
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Yeah I got a sharp and sustained pinch in the ribs for that, back in the day.
 
it was aimed at convincing boys that gay men were looking to molest them. I’m saying I don’t think that was actually true…at least not any more true than straight men in general are looking to molest little girls.
There are definitely some homosexuals that do seek to recruit teenaged boys. And that’s what the film gives a warning about.

It probably wouldn’t be an appropriate film to show today to kids, because there are all sorts of men practicing homosexuality openly. But when it was being shown, these are the kinds of gay men that we teenagers had to be aware existed when we were hitchhiking a ride or whatever. That’s of course another thing about the film, we kids used to hitchhike all the time back in the day. Teens today don’t do that.
 
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it was aimed at convincing boys that gay men were looking to molest them. I’m saying I don’t think that was actually true…at least not any more true than straight men in general are looking to molest little girls.
There are definitely some homosexuals that do seek to recruit teenaged boys. And that’s what the film gives a warning about.

It probably wouldn’t be an appropriate film to show today to kids, because there are all sorts of men practicing homosexuality openly. But when it was being shown, these are the kinds of gay men that we teenagers had to be aware existed when we were hitchhiking a ride or whatever. That’s of course another thing about the film, we kids used to hitchhike all the time back in the day. Teens today don’t do that.
You mean like how there are all kinds of straight men seeking to recruit teenagers? Again; that video is the silliest of scare propaganda that tries to paint all homosexual people as paedophiles. I was shown videos as a child warning about stranger danger, in particular about straight men who lure young girls away; does this mean that there’s a heterosexual agenda? Are straight people preying on our children?

And again; gay people flirting with you aren’t trying to recruit you. They’re flirting. And I really do wonder what you think on this topic; when straight people flirt with me are they trying to recruit me?
 
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