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what are some ways on how you reflect on the subject while praying? sometimes i feel like my prayers are not genuine because i feel that they’re just lines i’m reading. i know we are to focus while praying but is it just our conscience that focuses? how can we make sure we are making progress when praying?

also. i’ve heard that St.Paul teaches us how to pray. is this just from the bible or is there another teaching?
 
I believe Christ taught us how to pray with the Lord’s Prayer. If one takes each phrase and contemplates it, it is a very rounded prayer.

Or take the Apostles Creed, or the Hail Mary and contemplate what one is saying while saying it. When I was younger, Mass was said in Latin, I had no idea what I was saying (without further exploration with translation); now that it is in english, what is it I am saying?!

These prayers can then ‘find’ application in ones life… and become ‘real’.

Christ’s recorded prayers were concerns of His Heart. And this too shows another way we can pray (with heart-felt meaning).
 
sometimes i feel like my prayers are not genuine because i feel that they’re just lines i’m reading.
I know what you mean. I feel this sometimes if I’m reading a prayer for the first time and I’m still figuring out exactly what it means. If you focus on your love for God when you recite prayers, the words become much more meaningful.
 
*Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with Thee. Blessed art Thou among women and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen. *

Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse. Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse. Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse.

It is a wonderful idea to learn how to understand what we pray! The first commandment tell us to serve Our Lord and God with all of our heart, soul, and mind. When I read and understand in more depth what I was saying, when I was praying, it was powerful!

Several works contain an explanation of the Our Father, among them are The Secret of the Rosary by St. Louis Mary de Montfort and The Way of Perfection by St. Teresa of Avila.

The Secret of the Rosary also contains several explanations of the Hail Mary. I sometimes like to pray them in my Most Holy Rosary. And in my book, The Secret of the Rosary, it attributes the Glory Be to the Father to St. Louis Mary de Montfort. The book True Devotion to Mary explains a sure and perfect devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus through the Immaculate Heart of Mary, and it is awesome to know why we should be devoted to the Immaculate Heart of Mary.

The Glories of Mary by St. Alphonsus de Liguori, one of the 33 Doctors of the Catholic Church, explains the Hail Holy Queen prayer.

More info: The Secret of the Rosary, explains the origin and name, prayers, mysteries, marvelous effects, proper dispositions, ways to combat distractions and pray the Rosary effectively, and Confraternities (so you can have the benefit of other people’s Rosaries as well) of the Most Holy Rosary.

Someone once wrote of this book, *“Possibly the finest book ever written about the Rosary; appeals to all ages. Shows the great spiritual power of the Rosary, which is appreciated by few.” *Pope John Paul II was also consecrated to the Immaculate Heart of Mary in the method of St. Louis Mary de Montfort by True Devotion to Mary and also wrote reflections on the book. St. Padre Pio, who said, “The Rosary is The WEAPON”, said as many as 90 rosaries a day in a special form for which he received ecclesiastical permission. Father Thomas Euteneur, President of Human Life International, cites this in The Rosary Batters the Gates of Hell hli.org/sl_2008-10-03.html

And adoration of the Blessed Sacrament is explained best to the best of my knowledge in the book Devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus. This book comes from revelations and apparitions to St. Margaret Mary (1647 - 1690)

Free information on almost all I know on devoting oneself to the Sacred Heart of Jesus through the Immaculate Heart of Mary:
True Devotion to the Blessed Virgin montfort.org.uk/Writings/TrueDev.html
**Secret of the Rosary ** montfort.org.uk/Writings/Rosary.html
Preparation for 33 day consecration to the Blessed Virgin saintlouisdemontfort.com/consecration.cfm
Reflections on True Devotion to Mary by His Holiness Pope John Paul II http://www.michaeljournal.org/montfort.htm
**The Glories of Mary, by St. Alphonsus de Liguori, one of the 33 Doctors of the Catholic Church ** http://www.catholictradition.org/Mary/glories.htm
Devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus en.wikisource.org/wiki/Devotion_to_the_Sacred_Heart_of_Jesus#FIRST_POINT._.E2.80.94_The_ardent_desire_Jesus_Christ_feels_to_be_with_us.
Divine Mercy Chaplet ewtn.com/Devotionals/mercy/dmmap.htm
Cathechism of the Catholic Church vatican.va/archive/catechism/ccc_toc.htm

Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse. Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse. Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse.

*Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with Thee. Blessed art Thou among women and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen. *
 
Hi Dave,
it looks as though you’re probably ready to learn contemplative prayer.

Not an easy task to explain over the net, perhaps someone with better writing skills than I have, could do it.

However, a couple books that you could look into, to begin learning are;

“Practicing the Presence of God,” by Brother Lawrence.

“Intimacy with God,” by Fr. Thomas Keating

“Open Mind Open Heart,” by Fr. Thomas Keating

“New Seeds of Contemplation,” by Thomas Merton

These are the easier reads, but from these, you’ll be led to other works by the Saints they reference, especially St. John of the Cross and St. Teresa of Avila.

Also, if you have a monastery nearby, where you could make a retreat and get some spiritual direction, that would be better than reading any of the books. The spiritual director will better understand where you are in your prayer life, and recommend the direction you should go in.

PM me for more information if needed.

God Bless
Jim
 
Hi Dave 👋 I don’t know if this will help you or not… but when I pray the Rosary… I use large (8x10) color prints of each Mystery. It helps me to keep my mind on the Mystery being prayed. I tend to have a problem with a “wandering mind”… so, this really helps me.

You can get them at Leaflet Missal Company online…

leafletonline.com/catalog/Home/HomePage.aspx?

God bless.
 
I have a shocking problem with distraction and so I offer my distraction to God and don’t beat myself up about it. Lectio Divina is an authentic Catholic way of praying. Be careful of New Age or Eastern contemplative prayer techniques; we are a 2000 year old Church there is no need to go outside of our Catholic tradition. Remember all prayer is conversation with God or experiencing God not emptying onself. If we are not filled with Jesus there is no telling what we will become filled with.

A very good book which I would recommend is *The Fulfilment of All Desire *by Ralph Martin. Using examples from the Doctors and mystics of the Church e.g. St Therese of Liseaux, St Francis de Salles and St Teresa of Avila he discusses the various stages of the spiritual life. This is an authentically Catholic book.
 
Thanks a lot. I’ll will try your suggestions and read those books. I also have a problem staying focused during mass. I feel like i have ADD(which i don’t). I
 
The Lord looks to the feeling behind the act.

Focus on your feelings towards the Lord; that is what he notices.
 
*Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with Thee. Blessed art Thou among women and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen. *

Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse. Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse. Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse

In the past, when people used to say the Most Holy Rosary, they used a spiritual technique that helps one focus that has fallen into disuse. I find it immensely helpful for concentration. It is: when you say Jesus, during a mystery, add an adjective about that mystery to the word…e.g:

First Joyful Mystery: the Annunciation
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with Thee. Blessed art Thou among women and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus COLOR=“Red”]Jesus incarnate. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Visitation: Jesus sanctifying
Nativity: Jesus born in poverty
Presentation: Jesus sacrificed
Finding in the Temple: Jesus, Saint among saints
Agony in the Garden: Jesus in His agony
Scourged: Jesus scourged
Crowned with thorns: Jesus crowned with thorns
Carrying of the Cross: Jesus carrying His Cross
Crucifixion: Jesus crucified
Resurrection: Jesus risen from the dead
Ascension: Jesus ascending into heaven
Descent of the Holy Spirit: Jesus filling Thee with the Holy Spirit
Assumption: Jesus raising Thee
Coronation: Jesus crowning Thee

The above are from The Secret of the Rosary. I add my own for the luminous mysteries and tend to slightly modify the above ones for my own personal use.

Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse. Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse. Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse.

*Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with Thee. Blessed art Thou among women and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus… Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen. *
 
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