Making an inflammatory statement about ( whoever ) without any proof, citations, or qualifying language on the grouping ( more acurrately ; whoever ) is a slur.
You made an inflammatory statement about me ? No.
— you
imply.
Which, to my mind, is usually worse. Implications and inferences are hard to address or pin down, which is often why they are used instead of simple declarative statements.
If you think that hatred and bigotry is a dead horse you are sadly mistaken.
The trouble with the word “bigotry” is it is like the word "neurotic ". It is such a loose term that it basically applies to everyone, to anyone.
So , like a ----psychology major — once wrote, to say that someone is neurotic is really to say no more than to say someone is blue eyed.
It applies to everyone or anyone,
BUT it is always used specifically , it targets individually.
It’s a general-purpose slur , without appearing to be one, it introduces a difference where there is no difference.
As commonly used now it is used to imply that if someone does not invite certain people home to dinner their motivation is malice, that they may even be a potential murderer.
Absurd.
None of us invites
everyone home to dinner.
And I do dare to venture to say that *most * of the time who we like and who we reject has nothing whatever to do with principle, reason, or justice.
We like the way someone parts their hair, it pleases us, so they get an invitation.
We don’t like the way someone parts their hair, it irritates us, so they are not invited.
Indeed ! In my experience it is those who most doggedly assert that their motives are strictly about principle, justice, and reason, who are the coldest, most fanatically bigoted.
The only people they invite home to dinner are carbon copies of themselves, and Yes-men.
I’m bigoted towards college graduates?
I praise and encourage my girlfriends goal of getting a college degree every chance I get, I sent my sister to college, so I suppose they would consider that a strange implication.
But that’s beside the point isn’t it ? It’s virtually impossible to disprove a negative.
So I’m on the slippery slope to putting college graduates in ovens?
No, you don’ t say that . Such a statement would appear self-evidently ridiculous.
But if not that, then what are you saying?
Just stating the truth as I see it. Most people don’t realize that plumbers have to be able to do geometry and algebra in their heads to properly lay pipe. Not only is it a noble profession, it is an intellectual pursuit as well.
It appears you balk at showing kindness to this particular plumber even when it would cost you nothing.
I thank you for the compliment, to which you respond?
" Just stating the truth as I see it"
Deliberately cold, hold-at-arms-length , so it appears to this observer.
" Gun control is hitting your target. "
Am I to conclude from this statement that you wish to shoot people for fun?
You played dirty pool, you hit below the belt, and you want to gloss over that.
Pick apart my grammar or sentence structure when you know your own leaves a lot to be desired.
That’s what I think, and because of it I will not back down one iota.
This had nothing to do with half a sentence, it has something to do with you.