How to show love without misunderstanding?

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For example, I am trying to “love” this girl to show that we are a close Catholic community. But, I’m not talking about those type of mussy love where she will be my girl friend or future wife. I am talking about unconditional love between siblings. I also don’t want her to misunderstand that I am “into” her. How should I do it without her misunderstanding me? Btw, I think I am handsome. 😃
 
Keep clear boundaries,friendly but not overly.People naturally give off vibes of ‘unavailable’ I’m sure.
And don’t promote that you think you’re handsome 😉
 
I said “i think”. Lol! Not necessary handsome. Haha.
 
Through just being nice and through normal friendship as it arises naturally. If you are pursuing these friend opportunities too blatantly then it will send the message that you are romantically interested in her, which you are saying is not the goal.
 
I am tempted to say “Treat her like you would treat a sister” but I’ve changed my mind , though I think you might know what I mean . 😄

Love her by the kindness of your thoughts , words and deeds , but no hugs and kisses .

Be a gentleman , as I’m sure you are .
 
If you do not want her to think you have a romantic interest, I suggest you “love” her as part of a group.
Once you start doing things with her one on one, if you are both single, she may well get the wrong idea.
 
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For example, I am trying to “love” this girl to show that we are a close Catholic community. But, I’m not talking about those type of mussy love where she will be my girl friend or future wife.
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Come across as really insecure and not confident. Trust me, she will get the message. You’re are just friend material.
 
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