How to talk to a woman you want to know better from mass

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Love this idea 👍 it’s Romantic and not in appropriate for Church, perfect. I might give this one a go when public is available again.
 
Unless she is really familiar with that, it actually could sound kind of creepy.
 
I’d be happy if more Single women where so confident and did this. Even if I said no I’d still want to be freinds with them and talk to them next time.

Unfortunately I don’t think this approach would translate the same when the genders are reversed. Women have alot of men being upfront and asking them out, whereas for men it’s a rare thing, so we don’t get as defensive about it, I guess. I could be wrong though , I may have to work myself up to this approach 🙂
 
As a woman, this is good advice.
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I told you about the one woman that I was interested in, right? That I took forever to talk to? What I did, is that I said “Excuse Me Miss, I like your hair”, and I’ve been talking to her after Mass ever since then. And I really do like her hair.
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I could just hold my Bible behind me, and then say " oh sorry I was just trying to memorise this verse" did you think I was talking to you? and open the page up. Though that would be committing a Sin because it’s untrue.

i think I may go with your earlier idea though and just say " nice to see you again … "
 
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Just talk to her naturally. Don’t start reciting verses at her, you’ll more than likely scare her off. I agree with IrishMom, introduce yourself and get to know her.
 
I am terrible with women, but I have a lot of female friends (go figure), so I consulted with them to see if that was okay to do
 
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I know, it’s a bummer. Don’t wait that long, I’m sure we can put our heads together and think of something before next year.
 
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