I will soon be serving Low Mass monthly and Sung Mass bi-monthly (or if the situation improves, as is hoped, Low Mass weekly and Sung Mass monthly). I was advised to practice the Latin responses everyday. I have also been given little tips- dont touch the altar at any time; dont move too fast or too slow; pull back the cassock from your heels when you kneel or else it will get caught when you stand and “you’ll trip on the altar in front of everyone, which is wrong because its Mass and you should be more careful, and also the congregation will laugh and then be sinning because they have to be reverant, which will make you responsible for their sin, and wont all that be terrible and God forbid you are holding any of the vessals when you do trip!”
First, I don’t know how old you are. It really doesn’t matter as no matter what age, it is a great honor and a privilige to do this worthy task… I envy you.
I would add the following:
Say a prayer to Saint Tarsicis or Saint John Berchmans or heck both, and whatever other Saint you pray to.
Arrive early. I don’t know how the vesting procedure is, but it is typical to assist the Priest as he vests.
It makes a difference if using one or two servers, so you need to know that in advance.
Don’t say the responses too loudly, unless that is the way the Priest wants it done. Some like it loud, others soft.
Watch the Priests hands like a hawk and listen to what he says, intently… Don’t practice a private devotion and stare at the Host and be oblivious to everything else, don’t day dream or nod off, don’t look at the cute girl in the front pew or pick your nose.
DON’T FORGET TO GENUFLECT when passing in front of the tabernacle
When you genuflect don’t cross yourself, keep your hands clasped in a prayer position, except when carrying the Missal from the epistle to the gospel side be careful when moving the Missal from the Epistle side to the Gospel side. Very embarrasing if you trip. I did that
When you sit down place your hands on the top of your legs.
When bringing out the cruets, carry the wine in the right hand and the water in the left. Hand the Priest the wine first and transfer the water to the right hand. take the wine cruet back in the laft hand and hand the water to the priest with the right.
We used to kiss the cruets before we handed them to the Priest, but i don’t know it that is the current practice.
When you lift the chasubile don’t lift it too high.
Don’t forget to ring the bells at the proper time
When carrying the Paten, make sure you don’t jab somebody in the neck with it. I’m not being facetious here, I did it, more than once.
Don’t tilt the Paten sideways, hold it as level as you can, don’t make any abrupt turns and be careful. Every now and then the Host will fall. Then it is all up to you to save the day!
Be careful when moving the Missal from the Epistle side to the Gospel side. Very embarrassing if you trip. I did that too, several times as a matter of fact
**DON’T FORGET TO GENUFLECT/B] when crossing in front of the tabernacle
Listen to what the Priest says and remember your cues. After all these years I still do. Remember, you are doing something that those that have not cannot even imagine. Always remember where you are, that you are in sacred space and you are assisting with the most important central thing in our faith.
DID I SAY DON’T FORGET TO GENUFLECT when crossing in front of the tabernacle?
I bring that up because yes, i did that too
Try not to be nervous. You will be, but try not to. When I stopped serving I thought my heart would break because such a big part of my life was gone. I envy you, I really do.
You will be in my prayers.**