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Can any body tell me how tough these examinations are? What are their focus? What will auto-disqualify you from a vocation?
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They are not tough as long as you are honest.Can any body tell me how tough these examinations are? What are their focus? What will auto-disqualify you from a vocation?
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Thanks for the support. I hope you can have the vocation God calls you to.They’re generally not too hard, but they can be intense. I had to take two. The first one was really uncomfortable, to be honest, and I wasn’t happy with it (never saw the results), and the diocese was not happy either. They asked me to have another evaluation a few months later, which seemed to fit the expectations I had about a psych exam better. That one was not too hard. Challenging in the sense that it does (and should) cause you to think about yourself in a more reflective way.
Be honest. Really. We all have issues, and we all have a past. I can jokingly say that if they let me in, you probably don’t have anything to worry about.![]()
I had one for the Diaconate program. I believe it is the same one the seminarians go through. And that was pretty much my experience.My psych exam was less tough and more tedious. Several hours of face to face conversation, rounded off nicely with 700 multiple choice questions. You can expect to have to answer a lot of stuff, some of it repeatedly. They do probe into some rather private stuff, and it is best to be completely honest about these sorts of things. Don’t think about what will disqualify you. Simply think about what the honest answer is.
how funny you can pull out your certificate that shows that you still have your marbles i like peoplwith a sense of humor and i am sure that your wife loves you dearly and that you love her to pieces also and i think it is great when married couples can have a good laugh between them by the way how long have you been married?You both sound like you have a really good attitude about life in generalI had one for the Diaconate program. I believe it is the same one the seminarians go through. And that was pretty much my experience.
The difference was the I was given the 700 item questionaire ahead of time and sent it in before my interview.
The interview lasted several hours, the psycologist gave several tests, including the Rorschach (inkblot) test.
On the plus side, whenever my wife accuses me of having lost my marbles, I can pull out the certificate that shows I still have 'em![]()
I firmly believe God doesn’t call us to vocations if we can’t achieve them. Look at St. John Vianney, who almost flunked out of seminary, and was assigned to a backwoods parish because they thought he would do the least harm there. Or Venerable Solanus Casey in Detroit, or André Bessette from Toronto (?). I personally know a priest who basically flunked out of two seminaries, and was then able to finish the third, and is now ordained. He’s a wonderful priest, nothing extraordinary, but wonderful nonetheless.Thanks for the support. I hope you can have the vocation God calls you to.
15 years now. And we just had our 6th child. That is why I’m not in the Diaconate program right now, the wife needed me in the pews helping with the kids more than the bishop needed me at the altar helping the priest, it is substantally more rare for the priest to need to be carried to the cry room because he’s having a tantrum. I’m not sayin’ is doesn’t happen, just less frequently than a 1 year oldhow funny you can pull out your certificate that shows that you still have your marbles i like peoplwith a sense of humor and i am sure that your wife loves you dearly and that you love her to pieces also and i think it is great when married couples can have a good laugh between them by the way how long have you been married?You both sound like you have a really good attitude about life in general
Montréal. For many years he was just the Porter at Notre-Dame College in Montréal for the Congregation of Holy Cross. Salt+Light TV did a documentary on him called (very appropriately) “God’s Doorkeeper”.I firmly believe God doesn’t call us to vocations if we can’t achieve them. Look at St. John Vianney, who almost flunked out of seminary, and was assigned to a backwoods parish because they thought he would do the least harm there. Or Venerable Solanus Casey in Detroit, or André Bessette from Toronto (?).
That is hilarious! Do you think that you will re-enter the formative program when your youngest child is a little older (and you and your wife do not welcome any more into the world!)?15 years now. And we just had our 6th child. That is why I’m not in the Diaconate program right now, the wife needed me in the pews helping with the kids more than the bishop needed me at the altar helping the priest, it is substantally more rare for the priest to need to be carried to the cry room because he’s having a tantrum. I’m not sayin’ it doesn’t happen, just less frequently than a 1 year old![]()
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Just wondering: if one already has mentioned “private stuff” in confession or with a spiritual director/father, does it make it any easier?My psych exam was less tough and more tedious. Several hours of face to face conversation, rounded off nicely with 700 multiple choice questions. You can expect to have to answer a lot of stuff, some of it repeatedly. They do probe into some rather private stuff, and it is best to be completely honest about these sorts of things. Don’t think about what will disqualify you. Simply think about what the honest answer is.
Where would they have all of these evaluations? At the convent? I ask because I don’t drive, and I’d have to get others to drive me. (parents are getting old – there’s an almost 30 year age difference between me and my parents – and don’t want to drive me very far, especially since my dad had a heart attack a few years ago - a convent in the middle of nowhere wouldn’t be doable…).
Sometimes, in the back of my mind, I think my disabilities (hearing/vision, etc.) and allergy issues (non-food related), might be enough to disqualify me.I’m naturally skinny (always just under the underweight threshold), I wonder if I’d survive the half-year long Carmelite fasting.
Psychological evaluations are almost always done by secular psychologists that the diocese or community is familiar with, usually psychologists who are Catholic. These psychologists are usually, at least when available, going to be those who have doctorate degrees in psychology, rather than just licensed counselors. If transportation is an issue, ask them, and they will work with you. They will not say “well, he or she can’t get here, so I guess he or she doesn’t have a vocation.”Where would they have all of these evaluations?..
Sometimes, in the back of my mind, I think my disabilities (hearing/vision, etc.) and allergy issues (non-food related), might be enough to disqualify me.
Psychological evaluations are almost always done by secular psychologists that the diocese or community is familiar with, usually psychologists who are Catholic. These psychologists are usually, at least when available, going to be those who have doctorate degrees in psychology, rather than just licensed counselors. If transportation is an issue, ask them, and they will work with you. They will not say “well, he or she can’t get here, so I guess he or she doesn’t have a vocation.”
I don’t know what the various physical requirements are, but I would dare bet hearing/vision problems aren’t an immediately disqualifying factor. I wear glasses and have hearing aids, have a bum knee, a history of heart problems in the family, as well as depression running in the family (and a stint of it myself), and they still took me. Disqualifying physical ailments are probably going to be those that require lots of special care for which the community is not equipped or will not be able to perform, or those that for clerics will not allow him to act in the person of Christ (such as not having two hands to consecrate His Body.)
Of course again, the best bet is to talk to the vocation directors. And if one should be disqualified and still feels called to a religious vocation, talk to another community or diocese and see if they may have better means to accept you.
Am I reading right, that your high IQ was counted against you?Althoug I continued on but was not accepted in the end because of my stuttering and a high IQ (then).
Am I reading right, that your high IQ was counted against you?![]()