Isn’t it? You are considering an attachment to someone (who you love dearly, I am sure) instead of doing what MIGHT be what God wants you to do: to Sacrifice.
No. Because sacrificing other innocent people is never what God wants. Period.
Aquinas may be overly influenced by Aristotle (as he was on other issues, such as slavery, women, and ensoulment) in his discussion of our obligation to love. But if he is wrong–if we are in fact called on to love everyone equally–then we are called to love all our neighbors as much as we love our family, not to love our family so little that we are willing to kill them off for some numerical greater good.
The point I’m making is that each human life, properly considered, has infinite value. When you imagine the one person on the other line being someone you love, you see that. When we love someone, we can’t imagine deliberately harming them for the sake of some greater good. And when we love everyone, we refuse to harm anyone for such a supposed greater good.
To say “five lives are more valuable than one life” is to say that the value of human life can be quantified.
When faced with such a choice, the only moral choice might be not to choose at all, even if that meant the destruction of every living thing in the universe.
You know, to “pick your Cross” and all that jazz?
That doesn’t mean “put the Cross on somebody else.”
To say that causing the death of someone else is taking up one’s own cross is a monstrous parody of what Jesus meant.
God loved Jesus dearly, but Sacrificed Him so that we had a chance to be saved. And isn’t God, and Jesus, the example we must follow?
Again, this is implying polytheism and is not orthodox.
I wouldn’t be able to sacrifice anyone I know, I’ll admit to that. But this is because of my emotional attachment to them, my dependence not in God, but in my mortal life. I am, despite all knowledge of Catholic doctrine, a terrible Catholic still. (working my way up to Saint!)
I think you are going about it entirely the wrong way. I think you are trying to turn yourself into a robot, not a saint.
All the great Doctors of the Church have said that the heart of sanctity is love. The problem with our natural loves is not that we love people too much, but that we love them too little. The more we love God, the more we love others.
Utilitarian ethics of the kind you seem to be espousing are utterly incompatible with Christian sanctity. They are a kind of undead parody–Christian charity killed and brought back as a zombie.
You don’t sacrifice other people. Period. That is, to steal a phrase from Thomas Merton, “the moral theology of the devil.”
Jesus did say that we should leave behind mother and father, and wife, and son, and follow Him.
Leave them, if necessary. Not harm them.
He WANTS sacrifice. Sacrifice your pleasures, your belongings, your own flesh and blood for His cause - to save as many as you can.
Again with the quantification.
That’s always the wrong road.
What Christ wants is love. He called first-century people to “hate” their families because family identity defined people in that culture, and he was calling them to redefine their identity. He was not calling them to harm their families or to stop loving them.
(I’m not saying that Christ doesn’t sometimes call people to leave their families or do things that upset them today as well. I’m just trying to flesh out what that language originally meant so that we can see what it might mean today.)
God does not want sacrifice in the abstract. God wants love. Sacrifice is a free offering of oneself and everything one has and is to God, in love.
It never, ever involves the tradeoff of harming some people so as to benefit more people.
Or try to imagine: to God, is your mother worth more than any of those on the Trolley? To God, who loves every mother as special for giving birth and raising kids, for baking muffins and kissing good nights - to HIM, is your mother any more special than mine?
But no less, either. That is why God doesn’t sacrifice some people for others. Nor should we.
Would it be “moral” for me to pull the lever (since it’s your mother on the tracks), but not for you? Isn’t this moral relativism?
No, it isn’t at all. It’s not “moral relativism” to say that we have greater duties to some people than to others, and that some people have greater duties toward us than others do. It’s just plain natural law. Granted, as you point out, Jesus calls us to go beyond natural law and love everyone, even setting aside the claims of family if necessary.
But I suspect that it wouldn’t be moral for anyone to pull the lever. And as I’ve said a number of times, I think the whole “trolley problem” is a bad starting point for moral philosophy, because it deliberately creates an extremely improbable–maybe even impossible–situation. In real life, what you would do in anything resembling this is seek desperately for a way to save everyone.