So, in other words, since you don’t want to be raped or murdered, you’re not gonna rape or murder? Well, that’s a start, at least…
I’m not really sure how much else is needed. I also don’t want to live in a society where rape and murder are prevalent or condoned, as it vastly increases the chances I or someone I care about, or by extension anyone, will be raped or murdered.
So, what’s the basis of your morality, then? If it’s personal opinion, then it’s merely subjective, so basically, what you’re saying is that everyone does what they want. Is that the basis for a system of morals?
I’d personally content all morality is subjective when you get to the deeper levels. Even if you want to rebut that you adhere to God’s morality there’s still subjectivity in deciding which God, which source, which interpretation of that source, and how to deal with conflicts between them. E.g. do you prioritize the written scriptural word over the teachings of the Church, or vice versa? Whichever one you choose, there’s a large number of people who go the other way. Even if
all those points were agreed upon you’d still have the question, “Why is it ‘good’ to do what God wants us to do?”. Even if you have a perfect understanding of a perfectly objective moral system, as a creature who appears to have free will it will always rest on your subjective opinion to follow that system and not another (or none).
So far the principle I found most readily fits not just my ideas of morality but what society seems to embrace is well being. That is, the things that improve the wellbeing, in particular of sentient creatures and even more in particular human beings, are labeled ‘good’ or ‘moral’. And things which reduce the wellbeing of those creatures are the types of things we label ‘evil’ or ‘immoral’. When the wellbeing of one creature is in conflict with another is where we find moral quandaries; finding the balance between the which benefits one and harms another is where we’ll always find the ‘battlegrounds’ of morality.
As to ‘everyone does what they want’, I mean that’s basically what happens in a pluralistic society isn’t it? We create laws and social norms based on those nearly universally agreed on harms to wellbeing like rape and murder, and we leave things like taking the Lord’s name in vain out of the law as it does
not correlate to wellbeing (well in the demonstrable way we prefer when adopting laws). Of course laws are only related to and not indicative of morality but they do tend to show prevailing thoughts.