Husband having affair

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Please pray for me…my heart is breaking. I just found out that my husband is having an affair with a co-worker. This comes at a particularly hard time, as I am wanting to enter the Church next year, (I had planned to start RCIA classes in August.) He won’t admit to it, but I have several witnesses to the affair. I am so lost as to what to do. My parents are both urging me to seek a divorce, and I don’t know if I can ever trust him again. Please pray for me. I’m lost and heartbroken. I never thought my husband would do something so hateful and deceitful. We’ve been together 11 years and married almost 10.
 
I’m so sorry to hear your news.
Please know that you are in my prayers.
 
I will pray one of my rosaries for you this week.

God is near to those whose hearts are breaking.
 
I’m so sorry 😦
You will be in my thoughts and I will pray for you.

God bless.
 
This is the not-very-fun club, of which I am a member also. I am so sorry for you, I know the betrayal exists and hurts on many levels. Satan is working very hard to destroy the body of Christ, and he knows where to hit you where it hurts the most, sometimes in places you never knew existed.

I will pray for you.
 
I am so sorry to hear this. You both are in my prayers. I suggest that you try your very best to reconcile with him and give him another chance. Time and effort will heal the trust factor.
W.W.J.D. — what would he do? Would He walk away or would He open the door to love? Having gone through something similar, I recommend forgiveness until it is clear. The easy thing to do is to walk away, the hard thing to do is to love, when you don’t feel it is worth it or they deserve it. Jesus Christ forgave those who crucified Him. Who are we not to give forgiveness a chance. God bless
 
Jesus You experienced betrayal from those whom You most trusted, the betrayal into torture and death and of friends who failed to stand by You in your most painful and distressing final hours.
You know how deeply our sister is feeling the betrayal of the person she most trusted.
You know that her hurt is almost more than she can bear.
Please help her in every good way possible.
Please keep her faithful to You, trusting that You can help her through this.

Jesus although others assure her he is having an affair, they may only be supporting each other in gossip, in jumping to conclusions.
If he is innocent please let this become evident.
Jesus please send Your Holy Spirit to both husband and wife that He may act in them both according to divine will.
 
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
klhardy33 said:
I am so sorry to hear this. You both are in my prayers. I suggest that you try your very best to reconcile with him and give him another chance. Time and effort will heal the trust factor.
W.W.J.D. — what would he do? Would He walk away or would He open the door to love? Having gone through something similar, I recommend forgiveness until it is clear. The easy thing to do is to walk away, the hard thing to do is to love, when you don’t feel it is worth it or they deserve it. Jesus Christ forgave those who crucified Him. Who are we not to give forgiveness a chance. God bless
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A good post.

May our Lord help you to forgive and pick up the pieces of your broken marriage. May you keep faithful to your husband in good times and in bad and not give up on love. I pray that your husband repents and honors you with great love and affection. May he be true to you and end all ties with the other woman. May our Lord give you strenght, peace, deep faith, surrender to his holy will and abandonment to his divine providence. Amen.
 
Thanks everyone. I think I could find it in my heart to forgive him if he severed all ties with this woman. But I am afraid he might choose to divorce me. I know the Church teaches divorce is wrong, so what should I do if he decides to divorce me?? I am so brokenhearted. Thanks again for the prayers everyone. It means a lot.
 
Loving God please inspire hnoel to seek advice from her priest.
Please grant that genuine love and faithfulness will prevail in this marriage.
 
Trishie said:
Jesus You experienced betrayal from those whom You most trusted, the betrayal into torture and death and of friends who failed to stand by You in your most painful and distressing final hours.
You know how deeply our sister is feeling the betrayal of the person she most trusted.
You know that her hurt is almost more than she can bear.
Please help her in every good way possible.
Please keep her faithful to You, trusting that You can help her through this.

Jesus although others assure her he is having an affair, they may only be supporting each other in gossip, in jumping to conclusions.
If he is innocent please let this become evident.
Jesus please send Your Holy Spirit to both husband and wife that He may act in them both according to divine will.
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Amen.
The_Rock said:
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
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Amen.
hnoel1225 said:
Thanks everyone. I think I could find it in my heart to forgive him if he severed all ties with this woman. But I am afraid he might choose to divorce me. I know the Church teaches divorce is wrong, so what should I do if he decides to divorce me?? I am so brokenhearted. Thanks again for the prayers everyone. It means a lot.
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I am so sorry to hear of your misfortune. You’ll be in my prayers so long as you are suffering. If he chooses to seek a divorce, than it is he, not you, that is breaking his vow to God. I am afraid you don’t have much of a choice but I would contact my Parish Priest to see if an annulment is an option if, and when he asks for the divorce. God bless you and always remember: it is through suffering that we come closer to Christ.
 
hnoel1225 said:
Thanks everyone. I think I could find it in my heart to forgive him if he severed all ties with this woman. But I am afraid he might choose to divorce me. I know the Church teaches divorce is wrong, so what should I do if he decides to divorce me?? I am so brokenhearted. Thanks again for the prayers everyone. It means a lot.
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Well, he may not severe his ties and I am sure you know you must yet forgive him. It may seem impossible but with God, all things are possible. Jesus must have loved Judas almost best, because Judas needed Him so, and Jesus would have given his all to loving Judas, like the Shepherd after the lost sheep. What a broken heart Jesus expressed in His words, “Judas, you betray me with a kiss?”. Whatever God asks of you, He will give you the grace to do it. Right now, you are close to Jesus who knows what betrayal is…
 
Sorry to heard that…

While prayers will help, at the end you are the one making the move here in life.
Decision time, do you love him? Can you keep having a life with him?
Remember that you may probably forget about it but more than likely never forgive… Is is something you are strong enough to handle?

I personally can NOT, but people are different, feel and think different… Tons of luck and God be with you.
 
Praying for you

Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thine intercession was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my mother; to thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me.
Amen.
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Heavenly Father, may you provide strength, courage and comfort to your daughter. May her heart heal and she forgive as an imitation of your infinite mercy. May this marriage covenant be stronger than the evil attack of the Enemy.
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
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