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al2o3
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I know what you are going through as I have also been through it for many years. The best advice I have seen here is Pray, pray, pray.
My initial “defence” of the catholic faith just resulted in more deterioration of the marriage relationship than healing. Looking back, I can see how my own complacency (sin) has contributed to the circumstance. Because I cant change the past, I decided rather than debating/arguing/fighting, to give this cross over to God. I told my spouse I do not apologise for being catholic but I will no longer engage in the conflict it brings to the home. I did not resist all elements of catholic faith (pictures, rosaries etc ) from being removed from our lives. I attend mass regularly, say my prayers on my own and I patiently listen to all the Christian advice given to me by my spouse. It has been a great way for me to educate myself about my own faith. Over recent years I can see the hand of God bring healing to both of us.
The wonderful thing is you are both passionate for Christ. Both your prayers (though separate) will be answered by the One who is all truth. As faithful catholics we are called to perseverence! Never give up!! I am reminded of the scripture that says - when you wish to pray, go to your room, close the door and pray to your Father in Heaven. He always hears you.
Off-course you will be in my prayer - it is a tough road, but with a focus on Christ we must have faith He hears our prayer.
God bless.
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