despite what my friends and family members say, porn is wrong. It damages and destroys. I would really, put an ultimatum-- get that out of our marriage/etc.
Unfortunately, since it’s like an addiction, it can be hard to get rid of once it’s let in,
I would, get out of the marriage. That’s just me though. It’s a horrible thing though, porn. Anyone who tells you otherwise, doesn’t have a clue.
Well said…but I would like to just add my ten cents worth if I may …
People that go to porn sites,Massage Parlours , loitering around parks etc…
( Drawing a Huge Bow I know )
they are missing something in there lives… there missing some form of mystery & Excitement which they believe they are entitled to, they live in a distorted mindset …
and it can be very difficult to snap out of it…
what would be an enormous first step… get the internet out of the house…
the internet is like a powerful drug… you must have a dose of it every day…
and if your brave enough to do it,then expect withdrawal symptoms…
because the entire world is the internet…it’s taking oxygen out of the internet’s life…
like taking alcohol away from an alcoholic … no easy task…
then find activity together that get you both out of the house together…
swimming clubs, sports clubs, some form joint activity… it might be good to discuss it together… tell him that you want it to work… you want the both of you to stay together… talk about what brought you together in the first place…
it's no easy task... but what is the alternative .....