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Cat–As I another musician I emphasize with you to an extent. But when I’m playing I find I am really not noticing whether people are standing with lips closed staring “stonily” ahead, because I’m too busy concentrating on either playing, or singing, my best for God, or if I’m directing a choir keeping track of directing the choir, and if my eyes do wander out or down (depending where we’re singing/playing), I’m usually not checking out others. Then again, I’m ferociously short-sighted
which is a great blessing.
Also, yesterday after singing the first two hymns, my voice was beginning to crack a bit so for the third hymn I ‘gave it a rest’. Now if you’d happened to look over at me and seen me, you might (judging by your post) have thought that I was all of those ‘mean’ things above, when I was simply husbanding my voice; I did not know that third hymn so well anyway but I certainly did not dislike it!
I guess what I’m meaning to say is that, if we shouldn’t be judging people’s hearts by what they wear to church, if we shouldn’t be judging people’s hearts by whether they are hugging us or simply nodding ‘peace’ at the sign of peace, if we shouldn’t be judging people’s hearts by how they ‘appear’ to us. . .
we certainly should not be judging them by whether they are standing with lips closed and eyes straight ahead during a song.
Some people just don’t sing–after 40 years in music ministry in Catholic churches in several states I know this to be a fact!
Not because they might not ‘like’ the hymn but for many, many reasons.
I’d like to say how grateful we are for your service in music–heaven knows it is both joyful and frustrating at times–but please be careful not to read something into appearances that:
a. Might not be there at all.
b. Even if it happened to be there once might not ever be there again for that person.
c. Might be for a very good reason (sore throat).
d. Even if it was continuous and mean-spirited is between that person and God, not that person and you.
God bless.
Also, yesterday after singing the first two hymns, my voice was beginning to crack a bit so for the third hymn I ‘gave it a rest’. Now if you’d happened to look over at me and seen me, you might (judging by your post) have thought that I was all of those ‘mean’ things above, when I was simply husbanding my voice; I did not know that third hymn so well anyway but I certainly did not dislike it!
I guess what I’m meaning to say is that, if we shouldn’t be judging people’s hearts by what they wear to church, if we shouldn’t be judging people’s hearts by whether they are hugging us or simply nodding ‘peace’ at the sign of peace, if we shouldn’t be judging people’s hearts by how they ‘appear’ to us. . .
we certainly should not be judging them by whether they are standing with lips closed and eyes straight ahead during a song.
Some people just don’t sing–after 40 years in music ministry in Catholic churches in several states I know this to be a fact!
Not because they might not ‘like’ the hymn but for many, many reasons.
I’d like to say how grateful we are for your service in music–heaven knows it is both joyful and frustrating at times–but please be careful not to read something into appearances that:
a. Might not be there at all.
b. Even if it happened to be there once might not ever be there again for that person.
c. Might be for a very good reason (sore throat).
d. Even if it was continuous and mean-spirited is between that person and God, not that person and you.
God bless.