Too self identifying, but I will try, as this is important to me.
Pastor/Priest/Rabbi is there to teach/preach; this includes a very major defining tenet of the faith.He/she is bound to believe, and uphold said tenet
He/she **personally denounces it **and makes no bones about it. But not while preaching to the congregation. Tenet is upheld in services.
Congregant is confused and a bit peeved at the disparity because he/she is firm in the faith and by all accounts there is no wiggle room for debate. None.
For Christians, responses have suggested that if there is anger, that is not the best condition with which to receive. Gotcha.
Others, receive. Gotcha. Now back to the other question.
What to do? One is called to defend the faith. How in this case? Are personal viewpoints of a man/woman of God held to his/her preaching?
I think this is the best way this can be expressed.
Thankyou