That was uncalled for! MEANY!!!

I’m sorry, I guess that was a bit uncharitable. Just trying to drive the point home: I really think you’ve rejected the moral positions of the faith you were raised in without properly understanding them. Perhaps you’ve made the same mistake most people (present author included) have in thinking that since we were raised Catholic, we have a good understanding of Catholicism. I can’t speak for you, but I can say that personally (as well as for most people I know), I learned almost nothing about the Catholic Church in 17 years of Sunday mass (every week), Catholic school, youth group, CCD, etc. My Catholic education was so good that I was agnostic by the age of 12 and a professing atheist at 14.
What is a morally sufficient reason?
It could be many things, depending on the particular state of the family in question. Financial considerations could be sufficient if the couple really could not adequately provide for another child and still sufficiently provide for their family already living. The Church does not define specific reasons for the use of NFP; it is left to the couple to discern whether their reasons for avoiding children are just and grave, whether those reasons be financial, psychological, situational, etc. The expectation is that the couple will have formed their conscience, through the teachings of Christ and His Church, to an extent that they are morally competent to make these decisions themselves.
So, you’re saying the couple can have sex, so long as they are accepting of the consequences a child might be born. If they desire no more children for financial reasons, should they then abstain for the remainder of the marriage?
No, not at all. That is where
natural family planning comes in. Assuming that their financial situation is truly dire and that it would truly be irresponsible, rather than just personally inconvenient, for them to have another child, the couple could use natural family planning indefinitely. The way this works is that the couple abstains from sexual relations during the woman’s fertile period, which is usually only a few days a month.
There are several different methods for determining when this is, but done properly, it is 99% effective. It differs from contraception in that it acknowledges and accepts the full meaning and goodness of the sexual act and works with the nature of the human body rather than against it, whereas contraception treats fertility as an inconvenience to be done away with and sex as a commodity to be available on demand. Further, NFP requires a great deal of communication and cooperation between the spouses, as well as patience and self-sacrifice, and it engenders a deeper respect of the other’s body and humanity. This is likely the reason couples who use NFP rarely divorce. In summary: Contraception says “I want it now.” NFP says, “I can wait.” It’s selfishness vs. selflessness. Vice vs. virtue.
I’ll need the above answered to explain my point. Maybe it’s a bad point?! Who knows!!! Oh the anticipation!!! :bigyikes:
(PS, I’m not making fun of you, I’m just trying to have a little fun with this, ya know?)
I hope that helped. And no offense taken. If anything, I’ve been pretty short-tempered and humorless throughout this thread, so I’m glad to see I haven’t soured your mood.
I guess I’ve just gotten a little too used to some of our resident non-believers being insincere and patronizing. The more we talk, I get that impression less. I’ll chalk it up to your very unorthodox methods of discourse and aforementioned ambiguity.
You make me so happy in this post…
I withdraw the conjectural link
I’ve never had to watch a documentary for a debate, but sure why not. But, not tonight. The game’s on
Really, I guess it is asking a little much. But, on the other hand, the information therein has a great bearing on my argument re: population decline and it presents it in a much more cohesive and exhaustive manner than I could do myself.
If you find yourself with an hour to spare and nothing else to do with it, I think it might make you reconsider a few things. Maybe not. Who knows? Anyway, enjoy the game!
