PS: I should add that I’m not in favour of being disrespectful to your parents; just that becoming an adult means deciding your own fate, in accordance with a sound Catholic moral code.
There’s no excuse for rudeness to, or abuse of parents. I read St. Padre Pio told a man who complained to him of a trouble (which I can’t recall), that it was God’s punishment because he had beaten his father with an iron bar.
Honour thy father and thy mother. God takes this commandment seriously.