A
_A
Guest
Force has no place in a loving relationship.First of all, you MUST not be married.
Second of all, don’t get me wrong. I don’t think that a spouse needs to get all bent out of shape over the least little things. The other spouse would need to be doing something seriously inappropriate for the concerned spouse to be concerned. But even then, the aflicted spouse should only voice his/her concern and suggest counselling depending on how bad the situation was. Violence, threats, verbal abuse, or manipulation as you say are never the answer to marital strife. If the offending spouse is any kind of spouse at all, he/she will apologize, and that will be the end of it. Willing sharing is a terrible idea. What person in their right mind would enter a relationship, buy a house, car, have kids with a person who could walk out the door any time any day? Not me. No sir. You may say that married people do this too, but I would argue not as often, and if they did, the leaving party would have a lot more to account for spiritually when he/she died.
If God killed people as you mentioned, chances are the people he disposed of sinned big time with no thought or inclination toward repenting of their sins. I could be wrong, but like I said in my previous post, the mass killing didn’t seem to be “working out,” so God decided to try a more personal approach and sent the world its own personal rabbi - Jesus - to teach us how to live.
You keep talking about your “moral standards.” Where do you think you got those “moral standards” from? Your genes? Maybe. Or maybe God writes on the soul of every human being a code of reasonable moral standards just in case they don’t have the opportunity you have here today to learn about God, His Love, and His just punishments. (I did say JUST. Please notice this.) You may as well put those moral standards to work for you and find a nice church somewhere so you can thank God every Sunday for all His blessings and ask gently for any needs you may have. (A Catholic church is preferable, of course, but a Protestant church is better than no church.)
Thanks for reading,
Tracy