If you got to call the shots, would you make hell last forever? if no, who is more merciful, you or God? If yes, why would you wish pain forever on one of God’s children?
I cannot ever call the shots. I am not all powerful, all knowing, all loving.
In my cowardice, pride and overall sinfulness, I would do nothing at all - you and I are not worth creating.
Knowing that we can be better than we are, I will pray for us, that we become more loving, more faithful, more trusting, wiser.
Way I see it, hell is not so much about forever as it is about being without change .
Human time with its past, present and future has to do with becoming.
But, in the end we are who we are. Once dead, there’s no hope for anything better because this one life was lived as we willed it.
The emptiness and meaninglessness of selfish pursuits is eternally cast in stone - who we are and what we have done with what we were given.
Within the entire universe,
immense and wondrous with its heights and depths, spectacular,
to use a words, ineffective in conveying the true power and glory,
hell is a bit of darkness in infinte brilliance.
Free choice allows us the capacity to participate in and witness all that wonder.
God is far more merciful than I.
I don’t think I would allow myself to be tortured for your sake, sorry.
He did so that we might, in spite of our sinfulness join in eternal life.
As to wishing eternal pain on others, a few of points are warranted:
It maybe my arrogance, but I see myself more likely to end up in hell.
To seek the Divine is an ongoing struggle.
However, victory has been made possible through Christ.
I don’t know you, but I am aware that you are out there, another “me”, another son or daughter of Adam.
I do not wish pain on my brothers and sisters, but I respect your will to be whom you choose to be.
My wish for you is to share in the love and joy of everlasting life.
You clearly exist and thus must decide your fate. It is your choice who you will be.