This reminds me of a story a dear priest we know tells. Here’s a bit of a transcript of the story, since I happen to have an audio recording of it. Perhaps it’ll be of interest.
Father’s words:
One of the most frightening things that I’ve ever come across in my whole life happened to me some years ago. I was sitting in the confessional, and this man presented himself and said that he was a militant homosexual, a sodomist, as well as a molester of children. And he said to me that God designed him this way, and that he had absolutely no control over it. God made him this way!
I kept saying to him, “no! no! no! Jesus Christ is Lord! He is Lord over every foul and pestilent spirit that can ever attack the heart of a human being.” I said to him, “for instance, I have a murderous spirit. But, by God’s grace, I have never murdered anybody.” But he kept insisting that God designed him and made him this way.
Well, this went on for a long time and, naturally enough, I couldn’t give him absolution. He came back week after week after week and, on the seventh week, something extraordinary happened. In the confession room, he reached out, grabbed me by the beard, and pounded me on the floor. And while he held me down on the floor, he said to me, “you’re right. You’re right about everything you’ve said, that Jesus is Lord, even over the homosexual spirit.”
And then he said, “Judgment has already been passed on this world, and the judgment in question is this, that the light came into the world, and men preferred the darkness because their deeds were evil.” And then he said, “I prefer evil.” Now that’s what frightens me most. I think that many people know their deeds are evil, but they are choosing the darkness.