I can't decide if I am Catholic or Protestant!

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I suggest reading any of Patrick Madrid’s “Surprised by Truth” books. There are three, I believe, (unless he’s published another since I reverted.) They are what brought me back, along with Scott Hahn’s books, which have also been recommended by others.

I agree with those who’ve said you need to know what infallibility actually means. There were many bad popes, but they were usually too occupied with waging war and building their personal wealth to bother changing anything in the Faith, or, in the case of one pope who actually rewrote the Bible (very poorly; historians out there may be able to identify this one as I can’t recall,) he died right before he could enact its publication. The Holy Spirit has indeed protected His Church from all error.

The reason I left the Church was because some anti-Catholics I worked with convinced me the Church was invented by unscrupulous men. I didn’t know enough to defend my Faith. I came back after 20 years of experiencing wide differences of “opinion” in all the “Bible believing” churches I attended.

Good luck in your quest! I think you’re on your way to becoming Catholic but you have a few hurdles to overcome.
 
It’s a privilege to be Catholic, and have faith in the True Presence. savior.org/

There have been many Eucharistic Miracles. Of note is the Miracle of Baltimore, where the pope wanted to visit the seminarians. Sniffer dogs were taken through the buildings to make sure there were no threats. When the dogs arrived at the tabernacle, they whined, pointed, and refused to move.

Also wonderful to have access to the sacraments, particularly Reconciliation. The Sacrament of the Sick is available to everyone. My Baptist mom didn’t think she was ready to die until she received it. I told her she still had work to do. We moved her to a nursing home which had the hospice contract. We found another mission field among the residents there.

Read the lives of the early martyrs. Even modern day martyrs have shed their blood rather than renig on Jesus Hostia. A young girl in China died rather than hand over the Eucharist. Some friends and I dubbed her “St Tarcisia of China” since her name was unknown.

Blessings,
Cloisters
 
St. Redemption:

I don’t know if anyone said this, regarding the bad popes: The popes are infallible only with regard to faith and morals. They are not impeccable, and can sin!

I am thankful that we have also had holy popes.
 
Well, I don’t yet know if I am protestant or catholic yet, so I am here for discernment. I love Jesus Christ and am consumed with guilt that He had to suffer so greatly that I may have eternal life. I have believed this for 10 years and, well, I still believe it of course with really no doubt whatsoever. But it has only been recently that I considered the question of whether or not I was catholic or protestant even that important. Now, I do conider it important so I am on a quest. I’ve encountered so many great points on both sides that I do not know where to go. I’ve done some reading on both sides. If anybody here, Protestant or Catholic has any words or resources they wish to throw at me in order to me it would be appreciated. I’m talking anything. Let’ just talk here 🙂 And while we are talking, lets remember that we agree on the most important point, that Jesus loves and has saved us all.

Where I stand:

-without question there are important thing that are not in the Bible which happened, or which the Apostles preached and did. These thing are crucial in a critical sense. And I want to partake and celebrate them. I just do not know which traditions are legit. But I am certainly not a “sola-scripture” kind of guy, and I am not even a Biblical literalist, with regards to the OT, with the NT I am a literalist.

-Guys, there have been some rotten Popes who have taught conflicting things, this is another sticking point for me. I realize that Popes are just human beings, but the infallibility thing is a near insurmountable hurdle for me.

These are just the first things off the top of my head. I realize that I am kind of all over the place here. Feel free to drop in and comment respectfully in any way that you wish. I love Jesus with all of my heart and I would do anything for Him but I am struggling to find my true church.

I will be writing more about some of my questions but I wanted to limit it to just a few points to start. It is my hope that this thread can thrive and help others who are also in my shoes. Thanks!
Watch “Journey Home” on EWTN Catholic Cable Netwark, on Monday nights 7 pm CST. Others tell of their journey into the Catholic Faith. Very interesting and knowledgeable. Prayers and God Bless, Memaw
 
I can greatly sympathize because I’m on my way into the Catholic Church after being Protestant for 20 years.

Yes, there are some things that have to be overcome and “bad popes” was one of them. However, and this is the clincher, please don’t fool yourself into thinking that all Protestant pastors are saints.

In reality, there are some very, very good righteous ones, but there are also a LOT of very, very, very rotten ones as well that have done horrendous things (adultery, molestation, etc.) I would say, on the whole, that the Catholic Church and its history of “bad popes” is miniscule compared to the rate of “bad pastors.”

Once you realize that the Catholic Church and Protestantism are on equal footing as far as that goes, you can then really look at the issues dividing the two. As has already been mentioned, infallibility doesn’t mean that Popes will always do the RIGHT thing or say the RIGHT thing, but the Holy Spirit protects the Church from a Pope teaching dogmatically the WRONG thing. It’s more of a negative protection than a positive one, KWIM?

So even when the bad Popes were doing the WRONG things (like murder, etc.), they didn’t come out and declare that murder was legal or make any dogmatic statements that excused their wrong behavior. The fact that the Catholic Church still stands after 2,000 years proves that it is under Divine protection. Otherwise, it would have crumbled away like so many Protestant churches have once the “warts” became known.

Below are some wonderful resources that I have personally read that will help you in your discernment:

Scott Hahn’s Rome Sweet Home
Devin Rose’s The Protestant’s Dilemma *(If Protestantism is True *is the older version of this and I’ve read both)
Stephen Ray’s Crossing the Tiber
David Currie’s Born Fundamentalist, Born Again Catholic
 
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Where I stand:

-without question there are important thing that are not in the Bible which happened, or which the Apostles preached and did. These thing are crucial in a critical sense. And I want to partake and celebrate them. I just do not know which traditions are legit. But I am certainly not a “sola-scripture” kind of guy, and I am not even a Biblical literalist, with regards to the OT, with the NT I am a literalist.

-Guys, there have been some rotten Popes who have taught conflicting things, this is another sticking point for me. I realize that Popes are just human beings, but the infallibility thing is a near insurmountable hurdle for me.

These are just the first things off the top of my head. I realize that I am kind of all over the place here. Feel free to drop in and comment respectfully in any way that you wish. I love Jesus with all of my heart and I would do anything for Him but I am struggling to find my true church.

I will be writing more about some of my questions but I wanted to limit it to just a few points to start. It is my hope that this thread can thrive and help others who are also in my shoes. Thanks!
I’m an ex-Protestant, Catholic now for nearly 20 years, and I believe the Catholic Church is the CLOSEST to the truth. That said, I have two issues that I don’t agree with - the Infallibility of the Pope is to me an unnecessary doctrine. The Church got along without it for nearly 1900 years, and suddenly in an age of Ultramontanism, with the Vatican threatened by rebellion and war right on its doorstep, it suddenly pronounced this doctrine, when they were frightened of “modernism”. Now they use computers, advanced medical technology in Catholic hospitals, and the Pope has Twitter.

It’s an immense and unnecessary hurdle to eventual reunification.

I also believe the contraceptive pill was God’s idea, given at the very time population pressures were becoming a real problem in some parts of the world, just as we had concurrently developed the technology to do so (mere coincidence of course that God would restrict our technological development until we had need of it, and with population pressures an increasing problem since the pill was invented, largely by Catholic researchers), and recommended for use by married couples by TWO committees set up by TWO popes, including bishops and cardinals, and overriden by the decision of one man. That ruling doesn’t impress me one bit.

Having said that, I still believe the Catholic Church is the closest to the truth. And will remain so.

As for corrupt popes - Christ hand picked 12 disciples, and one of them betrayed Him. If He got it so wrong, why shouldn’t a bunch of cardinals make mistakes from time to time (oh, whoops, sorry about the infallibility bit).

That’s just good old human nature at work - as my old Protestant pastor used to say, “One bunch of sinners is pretty much the same as the rest.” Even Peter, the first “Pope” demonstrated feet of clay on a number of occasions. For some strange reason, his fallibility is shouted very loud and clear in the Gospels. That wouldn’t have been a message for the future church would it?

You need to distinguish between the **OFFICE **Christ was setting up, and the person occupying it. There have been some less that excellent US Presidents as well, but so far no one has suggested removing the office, even if at least one US President was impeached in recent memory (well, for those of us old enough to remember it).

When Christ declared Peter the Rock, He wasn’t making all that noise just for Peter’s sake. He was setting up an office, and giving the church authority at the same time. Or as my old pastor said again, “What’s the use of having a church if you’re not going to give it any authority?”

How much authority have the Protestant Churches got, compared to that of the Catholic? How often do you hear a Protestant official giving a statement on behalf of the united Protestant Churches?

So despite the fact I have these two items I disagree with (and rest assured a lot of other Catholics haven’t got much time for the pill ruling either - how many ten kid families do you see in Catholic Churches today? And they’re not using NFP either.), I still believe the Catholic Church is closest to the truth, so I’ll stay there.

And if other Catholics think I’m not Catholic because I don’t agree with every single ruling of the Church, my question to them is “Who set you up as my judge?”.

Last November I went to the funeral of the widow of the old pastor I quoted above a couple of times. Now for what it’s worth I had a vision of him some time after he died, when he appeared to me very briefly, and simply said, “The Catholic Church is CLOSEST to the truth.” And then he disappeared. So when I use the term “**closest **to the truth”, I’m not being entirely original - I actually got it from the vision, believe it or not.

A couple of months after the widow’s funeral, and she was a very devout Christian, I had a sense of her saying to me, “The Catholics are right.”

However that’s private revelation, and you may as well ignore it. But that’s where I stand.
 
Wow thanks for the replies guys. Give me some time to sift through and respond to these 😃
 
Forgive me if I’m wrong, but aren’t there ECF’s that say that the Eucharistic prayer has to be performed by someone in Apostolic Succession, which is why the Catholic Church only recognizes themselves and the Orthodox Church’s Eucharist as being valid since those two are the only ones that maintain apostolic succession? Protestant churches don’t have that so although they might claim the Real Presence in their communion, it really does end up being just symbolic.

I don’t have time to look for that source right now, so, again, forgive me if I’m misspeaking, and please feel free to correct me if I’m wrong in the Catholic position regarding the validity of their Eucharist.

So, to the OP, if you consider the Eucharist as the Real Presence, it seems that Catholicism and Orthodoxy would be your only viable options. If you deny the infallibility of the papacy but claim the Real Presence, then Orthodoxy would still maintain ties to the ancient church. My husband and I debated this very thing but we find that the lack of authoritative structure (and the inability to resolve doctrinal conflicts) within Orthodoxy, who lacks a visible structure that can address these conflicts, to be perilously close to Protestantism. That left us with only the Catholic Church as a viable choice.
 
Oh? I didn’t know it. Thanks for letting me know. I was thinking that real presence is where two or three people or more gather together to pray, He will be among them. At my mom’s church, the pastor blesses the wine and bread, and the partakers believe it to be His flesh and blood, but i have always been thinking that they meant it to be symbolic, until you mentioned about transubstantiation and real presence. Something for me to think about :newidea:
Without Apostolic Succession and valid Holy Orders, (Ordination) there is no REAL Presence. Only just wishful thinking. God Bless, Memaw
 
I second all the book recommendations I’ve seen so far (though I may have missed one somewhere):
Catechism of the Catholic Church
Rome Sweet Home
Surprised by Truth
Crossing the Tiber
The Protestant’s Dilemma
Born Fundamentalist, Born Again Catholic


Also, Four Witnesses: The Early Church in Her Own Words.

Will :gopray2: for you.
 
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The pope’s infallibility in his extraordinary magisterium (teaching role) has been used only once since 1870—when Pope Pius XII solemnly defined in 1950 that belief in Mary’s Assumption is part of Catholic faith. Belief in that teaching had long been reflected in the Church’s liturgy.

There is no set list of ex cathedra teachings, but that’s because there are only two, and both are about Mary: her Immaculate Conception (declared by Pope Pius IX in 1854 and grandfathered in after the First Vatican Council’s declaration of papal infallibility in 1870) and her bodily Assumption into heaven (declared by Pope Pius XII in 1950).

Not all decisions by each ecumenical council are automatically infallible. The Nicene Creed (adopted by the Council of Nicaea in 325 A.D.) states the faith of the Church on a very crucial point: Is Jesus “of the same substance” [nature] as God the Father? The Council of Nicaea said that Jesus is and, therefore, took an existing Profession of Faith and inserted the term homoousious (“of the same substance”) at the proper place. This is an infallible statement of what the Church believes.
 
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The pope’s infallibility in his extraordinary magisterium (teaching role) has been used only once since 1870—when Pope Pius XII solemnly defined in 1950 that belief in Mary’s Assumption is part of Catholic faith. Belief in that teaching had long been reflected in the Church’s liturgy.

There is no set list of ex cathedra teachings, but that’s because there are only two, and both are about Mary: her Immaculate Conception (declared by Pope Pius IX in 1854 and grandfathered in after the First Vatican Council’s declaration of papal infallibility in 1870) and her bodily Assumption into heaven (declared by Pope Pius XII in 1950).

Not all decisions by each ecumenical council are automatically infallible. The Nicene Creed (adopted by the Council of Nicaea in 325 A.D.) states the faith of the Church on a very crucial point: Is Jesus “of the same substance” [nature] as God the Father? The Council of Nicaea said that Jesus is and, therefore, took an existing Profession of Faith and inserted the term homoousious (“of the same substance”) at the proper place. This is an infallible statement of what the Church believes.
You seriously need to study up on what Infallibility of the Pope means,. He is not just infallible when speaking Ex-Cathedra. That’s happened only twice.That was to define dogmatically what the Church already believed and also the defining of Infallibility at the First Vatican Council. There was much confusion after the Reformation and the Church clarified our beliefs. He is Infallible when he teaches on Faith and Morals. (Faith is what we believe and Morals is how we live our beliefs). He is infallible when Canonizing a Saint. The teaching Magisterium is Infallible .Etc. Our Church is not a pick and choose what you want to believe. Catholics have a serious responsibility to know and live the teaching authority of the Catholic Faith. We just confuse folks when we try to tell them differently. God Bless, Memaw
 
So so true, Memaw…

I was putting dates in…one thousand eight hundred fifty six years to finally come to the theological dogma Mary was immaculately conceived.

Again…the Pope believes as we…we are on the same level as pope, bishop and everyone else…as People of God. The Pope represents all of us…and the Living Revelation of God’s will for today.

If people listen to any of his talks…minus misrepresentation by secular media…he is really not saying anything new…just using every day talk among common people…and starting and building relationships, merciful relationships with all people…not condemning anyone.
 
Thanks for the response. My responses will be in red;
If He has saved us all, then the question you ask is moot. It doesn’t matter who you join. Everybody gets saved.

Is that true? No

I don’t believe the point to be moot at all. I believe that certain Protestants are saved and that certain Catholics are saved. But the ultimate truth does matter. And even if I am saved but confused on doctrine, I still wish to be corrected in order to better serve His will, as would any good Christian. But I do not believe that our loving Lord rejects those that love Him because they grew up in a househould that taught that the eucharist was symbolic, assuming in fact, that it is not. The Catechism itself states that many protestants can be and are saved. But I assume that the writers of the catechism would not consider these point moot

Jesus made it possible to be saved. That doesn’t mean everyone is saved.

possible = may ≠ will

We need to do what He wants us to do. We need to be as He wants us to be. He wants us “IN” His Church He established, receiving the sacraments He died to give us.

I would say, you really do know what is legit. Jesus started His Church in the 1st century. #34

I wish I could be 100 percent, or even 80 percent certain that the Church that existed in 100 AD is the same Church which we now call the Catholic Church. I am presently not sure that this is the case at all. I want it to be true. I do not know that it is.

Protestantism started in the 16th century. We know who started each sect, and when it was started. It’s a 100% manmade endeavor. God condemns division from what He started. So we know God didn’t start Protestantism. To quote a famous Protestant convert, John Cardinal Henry Newman, “to be deep in history is to cease being Protestant”. That’s a simple and true statement that speaks volumes… that alone disqualifies Protestantism from consideration as legit.

how would you interpret John 6:51-70

The 1st pope denied Jesus 3 times. Jesus told Peter that would happen even over Peter’s protests that he wouldn’t do it. Did it change anything with Jesus and the plans He put in place for Peter being the leader of Our Lord’s Church? Nope!

All the apostles also scattered. Did it change Jesus plans for them? Nope!

This isn’t something of one’s own making. The ONLY Church that is true is the one Jesus established and gave all His promises to. Nothing else will do. That’s the one He builds on Peter and the apostles. There’s only one on the planet that qualifies. The Catholic Church.
I have many charges against Protestantism. I only answered some Catholic charges that I have here because you are Catholic 🙂 I have a long way to go. And you guys are helping me get there. Lets keep dialogue open. Thanks for all of your time 🙂
 
Well, I don’t yet know if I am protestant or catholic yet, so I am here for discernment.
Just keep praying for the guidance of The Holy Spirit and Godly Wisdom. Sometimes these things take a while.

God bless you on your faith journey.
 
Thanks for the response. My responses will be in red;

I have many charges against Protestantism. I only answered some Catholic charges that I have here because you are Catholic 🙂 I have a long way to go. And you guys are helping me get there. Lets keep dialogue open. Thanks for all of your time 🙂
I would start by reading the church fathers. They will give you the best picture of what the early church really was like. I’ll forewarn you, though……that church will look awfully Catholic 😉 Many, MANY Protestants have come home to the Catholic Church by doing that one simple thing.

Deacon Alex Jones has a great testimony/podcast called “No Price Too High” where he describes his findings as he read the church fathers for the first time. His story is not unique, either. Again, there are MANY who realized that when faced with the facts, they had no choice but to accept that the Catholic Church is the Bride of Christ.
 
Well, I don’t yet know if I am protestant or catholic yet, so I am here for discernment. I love Jesus Christ and am consumed with guilt that He had to suffer so greatly that I may have eternal life. I have believed this for 10 years and, well, I still believe it of course with really no doubt whatsoever. But it has only been recently that I considered the question of whether or not I was catholic or protestant even that important. Now, I do conider it important so I am on a quest. I’ve encountered so many great points on both sides that I do not know where to go. I’ve done some reading on both sides. If anybody here, Protestant or Catholic has any words or resources they wish to throw at me in order to me it would be appreciated. I’m talking anything. Let’ just talk here 🙂 And while we are talking, lets remember that we agree on the most important point, that Jesus loves and has saved us all.

Where I stand:

-without question there are important thing that are not in the Bible which happened, or which the Apostles preached and did. These thing are crucial in a critical sense. And I want to partake and celebrate them. I just do not know which traditions are legit. But I am certainly not a “sola-scripture” kind of guy, and I am not even a Biblical literalist, with regards to the OT, with the NT I am a literalist.

-Guys, there have been some rotten Popes who have taught conflicting things, this is another sticking point for me. I realize that Popes are just human beings, but the infallibility thing is a near insurmountable hurdle for me.

These are just the first things off the top of my head. I realize that I am kind of all over the place here. Feel free to drop in and comment respectfully in any way that you wish. I love Jesus with all of my heart and I would do anything for Him but I am struggling to find my true church.

I will be writing more about some of my questions but I wanted to limit it to just a few points to start. It is my hope that this thread can thrive and help others who are also in my shoes. Thanks!
Let me suggest that you reflect on how our faith in God relates to Church, what “Church” is and means to our salvation and the final key question, “is one Church is as good as another”. I believe each has a distinct resolution. Christ is God’s sacrament, and His Church is the sacrament for mankind. I can not believe one Church is as good as another.

These are things only you can resolve for yourself in reflective prayer and meditation in scripture.

JoeT
 
St Redemption:
I love Jesus with all of my heart and I would do anything for Him but I am struggling to find my true church.
When you finally get to heaven, and stand at the pearly gates, you’ll say to St. Peter, “Umm, I’m not sure if I’m a Cath or a Prod. Is that OK?” 😊

Ol’ St. Peter will say, *“Any friend of Jesus is a friend of mine. Come on in.” * :hug3:
 
So so true, Memaw…

I was putting dates in…one thousand eight hundred fifty six years to finally come to the theological dogma Mary was immaculately conceived.

Again…the Pope believes as we…we are on the same level as pope, bishop and everyone else…as People of God. The Pope represents all of us…and the Living Revelation of God’s will for today.

If people listen to any of his talks…minus misrepresentation by secular media…he is really not saying anything new…just using every day talk among common people…and starting and building relationships, merciful relationships with all people…not condemning anyone.
Amen, God Bless, Memaw
 
When you finally get to heaven, and stand at the pearly gates, you’ll say to St. Peter, “Umm, I’m not sure if I’m a Cath or a Prod. Is that OK?” 😊

Ol’ St. Peter will say, *“Any friend of Jesus is a friend of mine. Come on in.” * :hug3:
Almost as easy as ‘once saved, always saved’. Didn’t Jesus say the road to Heaven was narrow and difficult to follow and the road to Hell is wide and easy to follow. And what about "Whatever you do to the least of my brethren, you do to ME. Food for thought! God Bless, Memaw
 
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