My wife has started to talk about moving back to here native country, we are in England and have been for 12+ years since we met but she wants us to move to Poland.
She is unhappy with the education here for our seven year old twins. She is a governor of their school and there will be days with no actual teacher in their classroom next year (just teaching assistants). She was thinking of moving them to her school a couple of miles away which she says is better educationally. I have to believe her as I know nothing really about this stuff.
She is now saying she wants us to move and speaks as if she has made her mind up, talking of the school they would go to and where she would work etc. She says that cuts are making education worse (they ditched a lot of teachers in my area due to cuts), and they could be worse again over the next few years whereas there re very god schools in Poland for them.
I would have tried moving there when I was 30, I was open to it but now I feel I am too old, I am almost 42 and have no real education, what on earth would I do for work? I work in care, I cannot speak Polish so I would have to work in a job where I don’t have to speak but who would employ me over a Pole?
Also I have a chronic health condition which means tablets and injections every day and also a depot injection every 12 weeks, I doubt the government there would pay for these expensive medicines?
Also it would mean saying goodbye to the rest of my family which I don’t see a great deal of but would probably become non-existent.
She says for me to stay here for one year on my own to sell the house and work a lot to save up money, basically I feel she has made her mind up.
We are to go to her parents in Poland at the end of July for a little holiday, I have to come back much earlier than them as I don’t have much annual leave, what if they don’t come back?
She is unhappy with the education here for our seven year old twins. She is a governor of their school and there will be days with no actual teacher in their classroom next year (just teaching assistants). She was thinking of moving them to her school a couple of miles away which she says is better educationally. I have to believe her as I know nothing really about this stuff.
She is now saying she wants us to move and speaks as if she has made her mind up, talking of the school they would go to and where she would work etc. She says that cuts are making education worse (they ditched a lot of teachers in my area due to cuts), and they could be worse again over the next few years whereas there re very god schools in Poland for them.
I would have tried moving there when I was 30, I was open to it but now I feel I am too old, I am almost 42 and have no real education, what on earth would I do for work? I work in care, I cannot speak Polish so I would have to work in a job where I don’t have to speak but who would employ me over a Pole?
Also I have a chronic health condition which means tablets and injections every day and also a depot injection every 12 weeks, I doubt the government there would pay for these expensive medicines?
Also it would mean saying goodbye to the rest of my family which I don’t see a great deal of but would probably become non-existent.
She says for me to stay here for one year on my own to sell the house and work a lot to save up money, basically I feel she has made her mind up.
We are to go to her parents in Poland at the end of July for a little holiday, I have to come back much earlier than them as I don’t have much annual leave, what if they don’t come back?
