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VivienneJ
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Thank you, Palmas85 for taking the rape issue out and putting in the indiscriminate sexual contact. I come from the bottom tip of Africa and this constant focus on Africa=rape is very irritating - and simplistic. Remember some of those infected with AIDS are the children born to mothers infected with AIDS; there is also huge denial about admitting you, or a member of your family, have AIDS; and the fact that in some societies women are not permitted to question men and that would include even suggesting that they use a condom during intercourse.You do understand Catholic teaching concerning pre-marital and out of wedlock indiscriminate sex, which incidentally is one of the main causes for the spread of Aids worldwide, not only in Africa, don’t you? I hope so. Sex in these two cases is expressly forbidden by the Church, no matter where you are or who you are. No exceptions. True there are instances where Aids is spread through rape, but they pale in comparison to the sheer number of people infected through indiscriminate sexual contact. In fact statistics tend to show that a great number of those infected in Africa are infected by truck drivers who frequent prostitutes and then spread the infection with their wives, girlfriends and casual sex partners…
Since the Church forbids pre-marital and out of wedlock sex, advocating the use of condoms would in those instances would send a mixed message don’t you think? And in your rape scenario, I can assure you most rapists really don’t care enough to use a condom,.
As far as birth control issues, I don’t think that the Church has come around to progressive ideas like contraception on demand, and allowing sex in so called “committed” relationships.
Indeed, if we all heeded the Church’s call to faithfulness in marriage and celibacy outside of marriage this whole mess would look very different.