I had to rush him to the ER -- now I don't know what to do?

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Of course his blood pressure went down over the hours we were there. They gave him new medication and it was down to 180 something when he was released.

And I think for money – he has a lot of opportunity. He had a strong career before … and I keep thinking he will recover and somehow we will both become successful again together.
 
He will recover from his abuse and you two will be successful together?

You said he lost his job because of the story of his abuse cost him his job. You said you used to earn a six figure salary. What are you doing for employment now? What are you two living off of if he has no money or job?
 
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feelinglost1 said:
Of course his blood pressure went down over the hours we were there. They gave him new medication and it was down to 180 something when he was released.
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Ohh, because your post said it was 205 on the new meds, I must be getting your facts mixed up.
 
No. It went down at hospital, like i said. Then the next morning at home it was back up to 200 something. I am very clear about what happened.

As for money, i have a business. I still make decent money. I have been giving too much to him. And he is primarily living off of credit cards. At least that’s what he says.
 
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As for money, i have a business. I still make decent money. I have been giving too much to him. And he is primarily living off of credit cards. At least that’s what he says.
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If that is the case, there is ZERO reason for you to stay. GO NOW, AND STOP TALKING ABOUT IT.
 
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Because I need a little cushion of money to get me prepared.
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Hon, where’s your family? Where are the friends you had before you started up with him? Yes, there may be some who’ll say it’s your own fault and turn away, but I really don’t think everyone would.
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and somehow we will both become successful again together.
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One more time: there is no “we!” “We” would require that he was a partner, not a user and manipulator. “We” would require that he cared about someone other than himself. “We” would require that there is a foreseeable future with this man.
None of these are true.
There is no “we.”
 
OP, are you taking in at all what people are telling you? Repeatedly you’ve been told that this is a relationship from which you should extricate yourself. I don’t know what else anyone else here can tell you. Annoymous strangers on the internet can’t help you other than to tell you to leave (which we’ve already done). You have to seek out assistance in person from either a counselor or shelter.
 
Seriously.
Only YOU can change this.
Everyone is telling you to leave
Get help once you make your decision with the local resources. There are many.
God bless.
 
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This guy doesn’t sound right in the head. You need to focus on being a mother to your child. Leave this man. Do you really need this danger in your life? You can’t help him and he is not your husband. Leave!
 
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