I have no idea what to do--can you help?

[pinball_wizard]

i was confirmed a few months ago and now ive found the girl that im positive im goona spend the rest of my life with but shes not catholic. shes… well a mixture of three things(tho im not sure how that works in her mind its not my place to ask): shes a catholic/wiccan/native american spiritualist. i know i love her but ive been told that marrying her could mean excommunication. i dont wanna reject god but i dont wanna live without her. i dont expect a complete solution here but i need some guidance. praying just isnt cutting it right now. thanx for any help in advance

 

[Fr.Vincent_Serpa]

Hi,

You have more than an idea of what to do. You just don’t want to do it because you have feelings for her. When the feelings recede, what are you going to hold on to?. Do you really want your children being nurtured by a Wiccan? By the way you can’t be a Catholic and sometheing else. Be a man and bite the bullet. Better to deal with it now than later when there are children—far, far better!

You are in our prayers.

Fr. Vincent Serpa, O.P.