I have to discuss this

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Y’all, I am very interested with a woman I go to church with. I want to tell her, but, I can’t. I feel like I can’t find that balance between coming on too strong and not making her able to tell I am interested. I am pretty sure she knows and is interested in me, but what if it turns out I am deluding myself? I can’t contact her right now (because everyone who told me to ask her for her phone number was one hundred percent correct), so I can’t even ask her how she is doing. I am flat out going to tell her I missed her when I finally do see her again (because I really do miss her). Even if I am deluded, so what? That doesn’t mean she doesn’t like me. Man, this is harder in your 30s than it is in a teenager. At least when you were a teen you could say, “hey, tell so and so I like her, thanks bro”!. Harder to do now. We actually have quite a bit in common, like love of foreign language, Catholicism, and etymology of words (which I think is an interesting aspect). I don’t know what I am trying to say, just had to get it out. At least I have coffee (and tea). Keep in mind, I have been talking to her for some time.
 
Do you know where she lives, by any chance? You could go old school and write her a brief note.
 
And I guess you don’t know anyone that know her either?
 
Plenty of people…from church…See the dilemma?
 
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No, I Meant someone you could get an address from for her.
 
Go for it! What’s the worst that could happen? On June 25, 1988 I took a chance on a young lady who I thought (and as it turns out I was right) was out of my league. On June 25 of this year it will be our 30th anniversary.
 
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Hi! Boy it’s great to be back at Mass again! Did you survive ok?

Leading to…may I have your phone number? I wish I had been able to see how you were doing!

I will NOT tell you how to propose so don’t even ask! 😂😂😂
 
Well, you are just going to have to figure out what you are going to say that does the trick at the first opportunity you see her again. She will either be just as happy to see you and this would be the opportunity to ask her out, or it’s the same old same old.
 
Well, if she is there, I think I would have to assume that she survived.
 
She did say something a while ago that may help me with this. Remember, we usually talk after Mass, and she said that we need to sit down sometime and talk (because I told her that I never have enough time to talk to her).
 
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Of course she survived…that’s not the point of the question! It’s just a line to get her talking and let her know you cared!
 
Could you let her ask you out? She could take the initiative, don’t place so much anxiety on yourself or care what she thinks. Wait for a girl who really likes you and you don’t have to question things too much like this
 
So then ask…Did you hate missing Mass as much as I did? Would that be better?
 
I would be totally fine with that. I am not sure she will want to do that, however.
 
Whaat? That is a game changer. You need to get out there and ask her out,
 
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