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Whatever you do, just don’t let her drag you along and give you maybe or uncertain answers if you ask her out. Move onto someone else who is worth your time if they just want your attention. I’ve had girls waste my time just because they want attention and for a guy to like them. Don’t give them a second look if they say no or maybe.
 
Do you know her first and last name? If you do, take a page out of the youngins’ playbook and search for her on Facebook, Linked In, Twitter, Instagram…?
 
Even if I did, it would be a moot point, I haven’t got any of those things.
 
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Do you know her first and last name? If you do, take a page out of the youngins’ playbook and search for her on Facebook, Linked In, Twitter, Instagram…?
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lol, you beat me to it!

I was just going to suggest looking her up on FB. Or if your parish has a FB website, you can search for her there?
 
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Keep it that way, social media is waste. I went through friending so many girls trying to ask them out. 0 responses. It’s a waste of time. Keep everything off social media. That way it is more authentic
 
Well, there is me saying it (there is a very good reason behind it, believe me, maybe for another thread)
 
Y’all, what I am amazed about is that some many of you actually, you know, care. I am just some dude. I am thankful for y’all’s advice.
 
I think that there are going to be a lot of relationships that start in a few weeks with an “I missed you” at church . . .
 
Yes, he can have them as a tool to do “research” and not ever use them to communicate.
 
There’s nothing different with this being in your 30s than being a teenager. How hard is it to tell a girl you really like her and find her attractive? I told that to guys all the time. She sounds like a nice, well-mannered girl and if she isn’t attracted to you she will likely find some polite way to say so and won’t laugh in your face and say “Not a chance, sucker”.

It sounds like you have some kind of fear of rejection holding you back here, which is something that salesmen and job seekers need to learn to get over because they might have to knock on 10 or 20 doors to get someone who’s interested in what they have to offer. If you can’t even bring yourself to knock on one door then you’re not going to get out of the starting gate. Go for it.
 
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Yes, but you don’t know that would happen. Don’t go into it with that thought.
 
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