I have to discuss this

[Irishmom2]

If this pandemic and the time apart it has caused, doesn’t give you the opening to ask her out nothing will!

 

[adamhovey1988]

I don’t want to commit to anything, but it’s definitely pushing me in that direction

 

[Irishmom2]

Well, eventually you will get kicked in that direction! You can’t go back and have everything be just the way it was before.

Or can you?

 

[adamhovey1988]

I mean, I did meet her in church , I think that might be telling me something.

 

[Irishmom2]

Your bishop says “ let the countdown begin!”

 

[adamhovey1988]

You don’t think my Bishop is just hanging out here and he making those decisions based on the things from people of my diocese who were also here do you? I guess that’s one way to engage the culture

 

[BartholomewB]

A little, but it is actually more of a fear of getting in a relationship with someone and being the only one putting anything in it.

There’s only one way to find out.

 

[adamhovey1988]

But, that defeats the purpose of being a coward.

 

[adamhovey1988]

Anyone know how to talk to a woman from six feet away?

 

[Pattylt]

Sign language? Placards? Loud whispers? Interpretive dance? Drum beats? I can think of more if you need them!

Sorry, just had to throw that in there!

 

[adamhovey1988]

Sign language?

I only know how to say “no” in ASL.

Loud whispers?

Then are they really whispers?

Interpretive dance?

Yes, because nothing says I am interested in you, like the macarena.

Drum beats?

I am terrible at percussion.

I can think of more if you need them!

Yelling?

Sorry, just had to throw that in there!

I’ll toss it back.

 

[humbleseeker]

Ask for her phone number and then call her.

 

[adamhovey1988]

From six feet away?

 

[Irishmom2]

Six feet away is really not that far away to speak with someone. Granted, it would be a conversation that you would have to not mind other people hearing, but it’s still close enough to talk.

 

[humbleseeker]

Would you rather talk into her ear or shout at her and have others listen to your conversation?

 

[adamhovey1988]

not mind other people hearing

That is my issue. I do not like other people hearing my conversations.

 

[adamhovey1988]

Would you rather talk into her ear

Which I have done, whispered even.

or shout at her and have others listen to your conversation?

In the south, there’s not really much of a difference, to be honest.

 

[Chickadee]

I think you should go for it when mass starts up again! Many of us (I’m sure) wish we were lucky enough to have a guy we liked ask us out after church!

 

[Chickadee]

Also, even if I wasn’t interested, I would still be incredibly flattered. Seems like in your case, she is interested though!

 

[adamhovey1988]

I think you should go for it when mass starts up again! Many of us (I’m sure) wish we were lucky enough to have a guy we liked ask us out after church!

Rejection is something that I definitely fear

Also, even if I wasn’t interested, I would still be incredibly flattered. Seems like in your case, she is interested though!

I hope so