This is what I think:
Small desires like that I believe vanish away. What remains is their sins. The more sever that worse. Imagine somebody who has lived 50 years just grabbing money like a madman, cheating people in process, and all the other vices. He become so number, so hard hearted and now when he dies - no more physical, all that weighs him down. I f he had a little bit of light in him he might realize and repent, but is not he will be damned for sure! You know how angry people when they are angry and others trying to help them say “leave me alone!”.
Now he might get maybe in the presence of the Loving Lord, but His Love the sinner cannot bear, it’s too much for him for his soul is so damaged by the sins…
That’s what I think, something in those lines