I need a miracle

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My wife left me almost 4 years ago. As of right now we are still married. She called me for the first time in several years to tell me she was sending me divorce papers and wants me to sign them. She also told me that she has been with a man for 21\2 years. I feel like a fool. Please pray that she has a change of heart and doesn’t send me those papers and eventually we reunite. Sounds impossible to me as well but maybe Jesus has a miracle for us. I know she still cares about me.
 
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My wife left me almost 4 years ago. As of right now we are still married. She called me for the first time in several years to tell me she was sending me divorce papers and wants me to sign them. She also told me that she has been with a man for 21\2 years. I feel like a fool. Please pray that she has a change of heart and doesn’t send me those papers and eventually we reunite. Sounds impossible to me as well but maybe Jesus has a miracle for us. I know she still cares about me.
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Sorry, man. You want prayers for your marriage to work, or to fail? Or do you just want God to clean up after you?
 
I am sorry you are going through this.
You must know that sometimes what we want the most isn’t what is best for us
in the bigger picture.
And I am very sorry to tell you that we women will put up with a lot, but that when
our minds finally change, it’s almost 100% no turning back for us.
I will keep you in my prayers and that you will accept whatever happens.
God will be there for you, you must hold on to Him with all your might, and trust in
Him that you will be O.K.
 
I ask the Lord to help you to deal with this challenge in the wisest and most healthy way.
What you relate to us doesn’t indicate personal caring but there does seem to be some mystery about the circumstances, so I trust them and you and your wife into God’s wise and loving care. May God’s powerful and loving grace flow into all aspects of this situation.
May God’s holy will be fulfilled in your life.
 
Jesus,our Lords peace be with You.
Sorry for my bad english. Dear friend,God has given us the right to choose,and what You are facing is the choise Your wife made. Of course I pray for You,but I think it would be better to let her go. If she will,she one day will return to You,but by her own free will. No matter how hard we want,and how much we pray,God will not make anyone to fall in love with someone he or she don’t want to. I am truly sorry,but You need to let her go now.
 
Apollos said:
Sorry, man. You want prayers for your marriage to work, or to fail? Or do you just want God to clean up after you?
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I want prayers for my marriage to work!!! I was as good as I could be under circumstances to her. I was by no means perfect. I love my wife. I can’t imagine God wanting us to divorce. What do you mean God cleaning up after me?
 
Trishie said:
I ask the Lord to help you to deal with this challenge in the wisest and most healthy way.
What you relate to us doesn’t indicate personal caring but there does seem to be some mystery about the circumstances, so I trust them and you and your wife into God’s wise and loving care. May God’s powerful and loving grace flow into all aspects of this situation.
May God’s holy will be fulfilled in your life.
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I love my wife with all my heart. I never once lied to her or try and hurt her. I’m by no means perfect. For some reason that I can’t understand she started to hate me. When we were living together she told me either marry me or I might leave you, I can’t live in sin she said. I proposed. After she started to plan for the wedding she started to blame me for everything. i.e. she said I made her fat throughout are engagement and marriage, now she says it was her fault . I could write a novel about what happened if you want to know more I will tell you. Please it makes me feel better if people pray for her return. The prayers won’t go to waste God will use them for something else. I can’t imagine God wanting us to divorce.
 
Prayers for you. I know God never ever forces any to do something they don’t want so I am not sure exactly what to pray for in this situation. Sounds like to me she has moved on with her life and that, for her in an emotional way, your marriage is already over.

I pray for you to find the strength to deal with whatever reality you have to face.

Im so sorry for your pain.
God Bless
 
I shall Pray for your marriage. I shall pray that your wife will remember her committment and will return to you.
I shall pray that she will be touched by the Holy spirit and will think hard about the promises she made when she married you.
I shall pray for the both of you.

God bless you

Graham
 
gabanzo said:
I want prayers for my marriage to work!!! I was as good as I could be under circumstances to her. I was by no means perfect. I love my wife. I can’t imagine God wanting us to divorce. What do you mean God cleaning up after me?
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  • She left you 4 years ago
  • She has been with another man for the last 2 1/2 years
  • She wants to divorce you
  • You want God to change her
  • You want her to come back to you
  • You want your marriage to work
I think you’re wasting your time. Based on what you wrote, it sounds like you want someone else to fix this situation without you standing up for yourself and your rights.

I would love to pray for you, but I don’t think prayers are what you need.
 
As nothing is impossible to You our God, we ask all that is possible for this husband and wife. Please heal the hurt that is there. Holy Spriit come into their choices with all the graces they need to live in love, faith, and goodness.
Mother Mary please intercede for gabanzo and his wife, for all the graces they need for their hearts and minds and souls.
 
willisboy said:
I shall Pray for your marriage. I shall pray that your wife will remember her committment and will return to you.
I shall pray that she will be touched by the Holy spirit and will think hard about the promises she made when she married you.
I shall pray for the both of you.

God bless you

Graham
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thankyou so very much
 
gabanzo- I’m really sorry you are having to deal with all of this.

I agree with Trishie and Totterman and I too will Pray for the will of God for you.

Patron Saints against a difficult marriage please intercede for our friend gabanzo. Amen

saints.sqpn.com/patrons-of-difficult-marriages/

Patron Saints of seperated spouses please intercede for our dear friend gabanzo. Amen

saints.sqpn.com/patrons-of-separated-spouses/

Patron Saints of divorced people please intercede for our friend gabanzo. Amen

saints.sqpn.com/patrons-of-divorced-people/
 
I shall pray for you, and for a happy outcome that works out peacefully.

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