The priest who blessed our house has since been excommunicated from the church, only way I can contact her is through facebook, and she is no longer a priest.
There is no such thing as a female Catholic priest. No wonder she got excommunicated, if she was posing as one.
For your sake I would strongly recommend ignoring all sources that are untrustworthy on a topic like this. That would include any woman who pretends to be a Catholic priest (a thing that does not exist and isn’t metaphysically possible). It sounds like you may unfortunately be surrounded by people who do not understand much about Catholicism, and that may be skewing your impression of what may be going on in your home. (For example, you mentioned that prior to getting married (or is he an Anglican convert eligible to become a priest in the latin rite after marriage?), your dad was “studying to be a priest” – but he clearly didn’t study, or understand too much, if he let into your house a woman who claimed to be a priest, to “bless” it. So I hate to say it, but your parents might not be the best resource for you on true Catholicism. Shopping around for a priest who will tell you something you’d like to hear isn’t a good idea either (you mentioned you’ve now emailed multiple priests); my advice would be, just reach out to the single priest who lives closest to you, and work only with him.
And also and primarily, continue to see doctors, and especially explore whether you may be suffering from mental health issues beyond the depression you mentioned, as that could explain much of what you’re experiencing. (I have an aunt with schizophrenia, and that sort of condition could explain your audio/visual hallucinations, etc. Or OCD might explain why you “feel the need to pray relentlessly”.)
Ultimately, it sounds like your experiences are causing you to feel disturbed and frightened – and you need to seek out reliable, professional help to assist you with this. Let your doctor know about the audio/visual hallucinations, your compulsive feeling of the need to pray relentlessly, etc. You don’t have to live like this; help is out there. But women pretending to be priests aren’t it, and honestly, internet diagnoses aren’t it, either.